Unwell girl said...
That's exactly how I feel. It seems hard to get anywhere with them, they say it doesn't matter whether it's chrohns or ulcerated colitis it's all dealt with the same way! I don't know if this is true or not, we just have to take it as the truth, I guess I am glad they've even said it is inflammatory bowel disease because I really thought it was cancer or I was going mad and I think my husband thought I was too. Bless him! Nobody seems to realise what we are going through on a daily basis, I think people think your laying it on! They just don't get all of it, here I am up in the middle of the night yet again in the bathroom and in bad pain, this bout seems to just be taking it out of me 5+ almost 6 months and I'm getting lower and lower and very tearful. Probably I'm feeling like this because I so exhausted and very anaemic. I will go to the doctor for some iron tablet or I think I'll just go and buy some, now I know I don't have to wait until they get it under control.
Did you manage to get them to listen to you eventually? I hope you did and they have sorted you out with the right medication and your managing to have more good days that bad. Thank you so much for just understanding. )
Sorry for second post in a row... Just wanted to get the part about
the meds out of the way :-/
The first rule of Crohn's club: Nobody understands what you are going through.
The second rule of Crohn's club: Nobody understands what you are going through.
(Same applies for UC, but Crohn's club is catchier.)
How bad is your anaemia? If it's severe, ask for iron transfusions. Beyond a certain point, iron tablets will not help - especially if you still have active disease and are bleeding. They can also be hard for a damaged gut to tolerate. I had a few iron transfusions, and they made a big difference straight away.
Yes and no, but more no >_>. Truth is, I left 3 hospitals in disgust and anger (the 2nd move was because we moved out of London, to be fair, and it was expensive and difficult to get to. But the hospital wasn't much cop either). At the 4th, and current, hospital I had a good couple of years and the best GI by miles yet. But by that time my disease was too far gone to go into remission; nothing worked. I had to have surgery, and ever since then it's been dire service. Appointments have been set back by months at a time and nobody is bothering with monitoring me at all. At this rate if I don't do anything, it's quite clear my hospital will not bother with another checkup for years - if ever.
But this time I'm not running away to another hospital. I'm gonna stay at my current hospital and start bugging them. It actually goes strongly against my nature: I'm articulate enough in print I guess, but in real life I just can't bear the hassle. I was also very shy in front of doctors: too shy to ask about
most of the things I wanted to know about
, like test results. In the long run it did me no good whatsoever. Maybe doctors don't like 'pushy' patients: but they just basically completely ignore retiring wallflowers.
(Sorry if I waffled. I'm severely sleep-deprived... >.>. Anyway, I hope something in this wall of text makes some sense to you and helps.)