Posted 8/6/2017 6:28 PM (GMT 0)
Minnie,
My GI likes to prepare me for the worse...so sometimes when we are doing further testing we are both a wreck.
I think that, as a physician, when you have a patient you are treating and they divert to the path less traveled it makes you more aware of the necessity of sharing every possibility so that they are prepared to make difficult choices if need be. The benefit for the patient is that you have time to get used to the ideas and plan accordingly. If I were a physician I might not share every little thing with a patient if they were doing well and there wasn't a need to burden them with information overload.
I also think, and this is just my opinion, that since many people with Crohns don't get fistulas, there wasn't that need to go down that path or share all the extra information. (Why scare someone?) Once the fistula broke thru he needed to ensure that you are aware of everything. Your illness changed and he changed his behavior to ensure you are taken care of and prepared.
He wants you to be aware, to hope for the best but to plan for the worse. Doctors care about their patients (I think my GI cried harder than I did when I had to have a colostomy. Lol..) It sounds like you have a good one.
Hang in there and please let us know how it goes.
Clo