Help for my girlfriend

Anyone that is out there that can help me I would be very grateful.
My girlfriend suffers from depression and had an opperation just after x mas so she is in bed all week and I need to know how to get her to go out and enjoy life cause I dont now much about depression. I d be very grateful for advise cause I try my best but she is just not herself and im afraid if she leaves me she will only get worse on her own. and believe me i want the best for her

It takes a long time for the mind and body to get over an operation, it is a shock to the system.

Good luck
Karen

I would say have patience because this could take a long time to heal. Have you talked to her doctor? Maybe they could let you know if she is getting better like she should.

Karen

i hope she recovers quickly! it's no fun being in bed and not able to do anything for a while, but i bet she'd be happy if you just came to see her and make her laugh. get comfortable and watch a movie maybe? do something that doesnt require a lot of physical movement. and when she's well enough, like mochiah said, go for a nice walk and have a nice talk. she probably needs you now more than ever to get her to feel better physically and emotionally again. best of luck.