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Posted 11/11/2008 11:29 AM (GMT 0)
 

I dont even know where to start Im so messed up. I have so many problems and its ruining my relationship with my boyfriend who is my everything. I dont have anyone to tell because anyone else who knows me would judge me. So I guess this is the best place to come. Nobody here will know me, and you can judge me and it wont hurt so much...I just need someone to listen to my crazy mind and help me to change my ways...maybe I am asking for a miracle though?

 

Posted 11/11/2008 11:58 AM (GMT 0)
Heej Hannah!

Welcome to HW, I believe you have come to a good place for your situation, since there are a lot of really helpful members and wonderful moderators here. We are all here to listen to you.

Maybe it is an idea to write down the things that are bothering you for a start. You don't have to post them on-line, since writing down your thoughts can be really personal and hard to share, and it will help even when you are not sharing them. However, we can try to help you better if we know what is bothering you.

I think it will be a good start if you tell us a bit more of your situation. You can write down whatever you want, and leave out the things you don't feel comfortable with sharing on-line (for now). Also, make it is long or as short as you think is necessary. Just throw out the things that are bothering you. If you don't feel like talking at all, that is also OK.

Hannah, please take care, and I hope to hear from you!
Erik
Posted 11/11/2008 12:15 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Hannah,

You sound confused to me, & Erik is right you should try writing things down - that might help you to get some order.

This is a good place to come to talk without being judged. So yeah share some more about your situation.

Li
Posted 11/11/2008 2:36 PM (GMT 0)
Hello Hannah,

Welcome! You've found a safe, caring , and reliable support community for people battling Depression.  We have many members here who will be glad to lend an ear, offer information, and provide support for people who need it.

There is something comforting about baring your soul to the members of A & P and still being able to be anonymous.

We do not judge, we listen and  support.  We give advice but it is just our own as we are not professionals.  Talk to us Hannah.  We are here for you.

Kitt

Posted 11/11/2008 2:36 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Hannah,,

First of all, welcome to HealingWell. You have come to a good place and I think it is a good idea you are joining us.

As Erik and Confusedli said, tell us a little more about the situation. It doesn't matter how long the post is, but if it is long, try to break it up into paragraphs for it is easier to read.

I hope that you are feeling better soon. I know that life is hard at times, and I understand that you don't want things to effect your relationship. That is good, because it shows that you realize whatever it is that is going on.

Please keep posting, as we are here for you.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 11/11/2008 3:01 PM (GMT 0)

enWayen said...
Heej Hannah!

Welcome to HW, I believe you have come to a good place for your situation, since there are a lot of really helpful members and wonderful moderators here. We are all here to listen to you.

Maybe it is an idea to write down the things that are bothering you for a start. You don't have to post them on-line, since writing down your thoughts can be really personal and hard to share, and it will help even when you are not sharing them. However, we can try to help you better if we know what is bothering you.

I think it will be a good start if you tell us a bit more of your situation. You can write down whatever you want, and leave out the things you don't feel comfortable with sharing on-line (for now). Also, make it is long or as short as you think is necessary. Just throw out the things that are bothering you. If you don't feel like talking at all, that is also OK.

Hannah, please take care, and I hope to hear from you!
Erik

Yup , Erick is right. You should be writing things down. That is a good way of keeping things on track
Posted 11/11/2008 5:21 PM (GMT 0)
Hannah,

It's good you have come here. I'm finding out each day that this is a great place to hang out in, and just be yourself. I'm here to listen to your story.
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