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Posted 6/21/2009 2:19 AM (GMT 0)
So you guys probably already noticed my trend in topics... boys! haha. Well now I need your advice on something a little different having to do with my boyfriend... I'm going to college in August on the other side of the country, and my boyfriend will still be finishing up high school here. I really like him and I know he likes me just as much, but I don't think we're going to continue our relationship once I go to school. Do you guys have any advice on how I can make it easier on myself when I leave? We're staying together until then (unless something happens, which I don't think it will), but I don't know how I'm going to deal with it when the time comes. I want to be able to prepare myself as much as I can, but I also want to enjoy the time I have with him. Help... please!!
Posted 6/21/2009 4:14 AM (GMT 0)
I would say to do just that. Enjoy your time with him and let the rest run it's course. Let the chips fall as they may as they say.

Do not worry about the things that you have no control of. Take life one day at a time and live in the moment. That is the best you can do, and the rest will fall into place as it should.

Best wishes to you.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 6/21/2009 7:35 AM (GMT 0)

I agree with Karen.Just try to enjoy the time that you do have with him.There is really no true way to make it any easier except to do exactly what Karen said to do: Take life one day at a time and live in the moment.That's the best advice anyone can give.I wish you luck and the best of everything.

Keep us updated and keep posting when you go away to college.We want to know you do and how the college life is treating you.

Posted 6/21/2009 7:49 AM (GMT 0)
karen makes wonderful sense. ying and yang. some things go full circle, and by leaving it to the universe it may well come that way, and may not albeit life is about change, thus your relationship will to, so, go and experience, this wonderful.  things happen rightly in time. i feel for you, some decisions are tougher than others. time 4 a deep and meaningful i gather. this way your mind can be put more at ease. take care. jamie, ps. yeah talkin' from experience!!
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