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Posted 9/7/2009 3:32 PM (GMT 0)
Nobody cares for me. I'm facing scorns all the time, Call me sissy, call me weakling, call me an imbecile. I wish time could just freeze and let me have eternal happiness...
Posted 9/7/2009 4:26 PM (GMT 0)
one, i care as we all care. 2. who you are is you. 3. you are a human being with talents and gifts unique only to you. 4. do not listen to the idiots. jamie.
Posted 9/7/2009 7:31 PM (GMT 0)
I feel the same way,my family cannot stand to see me have one little thread of happiness,my mom is crazy .....I think ,she lies all the time and tries to make herself look soooo wonderful.My entire life she has "screwed me over" I am 27 years old now and have my own family but she continues to give me the abuse,that is exactly what she has been doing to me all these years she is mentally abusing me!I don't know what to do. I would just cut all ties with her but I wouldn't be able to live with myself.

Posted 9/8/2009 2:00 AM (GMT 0)
kd,
Cut the cord. Until your family can act in appropriate manner with you then do not engage with them. Maybe take a break, it doesn't have to be a forever break, but give yourself some time and therapy to get your boundaries straighten out.

Sam,
You are not any of those things. School is very hard to deal with perhaps there is a school social worker that might be able to help you? Kitt gave you some stragetics to help deal with the people who are bring you down. But I also want to encourage you to find someone who can help you in your own community.
Posted 9/8/2009 4:44 AM (GMT 0)
KD,

I broke away from my family years ago and it was the best thing I ever did for myself.

Best wishes,

Hugs, Karen
Posted 9/8/2009 3:43 PM (GMT 0)
first off we do care like jamie said. s chool is really hard and harder when you have a bully. how do i know because i was bullied all throughout school. it was once so bad that my principal had to keep me in his office after school because they were threatening to beat me up. even the vice principal was in on the bullying.(sad huh)

Bullys are gonna mess with you to get a response so dont give them one. You are not a weakling or a sissy and if someone thinks so then who cares what they say. only you are the judge of who you are. You are responsible for your own happiness. Rise above the bullying and dont let it affect you. How? keep a journal and write down all your emotions there but dont let the bullies see your reactions. Know that alot of the times that they are bullying you is because they are jealous of you. that is the truth. i am gonna share a quote that has helped me and may hopefully help you.

"Life isnt what it is supposed to be. It is what it is. It is the way you cope with it that makes the difference." a person from another forum has that quote and it has really helped me.

One of the things you can do is do some volunteer work, that helped me with my feelings as i was doing for others. If you dont learn to love yourself than others wont love you. Love starts with you first.
Posted 9/10/2009 3:00 AM (GMT 0)
I have felt the same way, i have done things i really really regret doing. but sometimes i say, im glad i did the things i do because im a stronger person and i learned from my mistakes.

if you go to concealing it really helps. i just lets you let everything out. and they just talk with you. even though talking doesnt seem like it is a cure. but talking i would say is the best thing to do if you are being depressed. it helped me and i know where you are coming from. i was a very popular jock in 8th and 9th grade. i played football and talked to all the girls. but i realized this isnt what i want. its not making me happy. do the things that make you happy. its not worth trying to fit in. and if your friends are saying those things to you. they are not good friends at all. friends like you for who you are and what you do.

so do what you like to do.
its better to have 1 real friend than a whole bunch of fake ones.

If you need to ever talk with someone, i can. im new here but i will be checking my profile daily.
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