I'd say this is an honest question and deserves a straight up honest answer. Many people act like they do when they don't, that is a fact of human nature...that is where discernment comes into the picture. Surround yourself with people that you have identified as trustworthy, moral, caring people and you are setting yourself up for only good. If you do the opposite, even as "kinda" friends, if you keep them around, it is only a matter of time until that dishonest person turns on you. It is worlds better to have 2 great true friends than have 20 that you're always questioning yourself about
. The answer, in majority (and this might just be my negativity coming out a little, I try to keep it down) I'd say is yes, so you just have to pay attention who you associate yourself with. This place is a very good place for exactly that, you get support, help, an ear(eyes as it is) to listen(or read) to problems always helps, topped off like a cherry on a sundae with caring responses. Keep asking these questions, you have them inside and if you don't let them out to be sorted they will begin to fester and only get more troublesome. There is no problem in asking that question, it just needed a little understanding to supply the answer. Good luck and keep the questions comin
Post Edited (-Misunderstood-) : 5/22/2010 11:09:55 AM (GMT-6)