Posted 11/24/2010 2:46 PM (GMT 0)
sorry, i need to rant. my DH proposed to me on the beach even though we're already married, he told me he still wanted to give me that experience, that he loved me and that i "deserved" it. Now, we never were really "engaged", and he never proposed, we just went to the courthouse and got married. anyway, fast foward a few days, and i find out the ring is a total FAKE and that he paid $100 for the engagment and wedding ring that came with it! i'm so mad. I couldn't care less that the ring is fake what i care about is that he tried to pass it off as the real thing! i'm so angry that he lied to me! If he would have been upfront with me from the beginning, i would have understood, and would have loved it but no he had to go into this whole sphiel and totally play it out like it was the real thing! he says that he has a "real ring" and that it's being sized right now and he wanted to give me as a suprise for Christmas...i told him that's not what i care about, and i really doubt that he has one. he doesn't even know my ring size! I don't know wheter to believe him or not. this is not the first time he hasn't been totally honest with me, either, not the first time we've struggled through this. god...even if he had a real one on the way, how was he going to explain that this one was fake and was just passing it off for the time being? i have no ideal. i am perfectly fine with a fake engagment/wedding ring IF i know it's fake to begin with! i feel so hurt right now. am i right to feel this way? or am i wrong?