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Posted 12/22/2010 2:30 AM (GMT 0)

cry  i have been fighting with my husband for the past 10months its stressing me out more and more everyday, what caused this arguement was that i found out he has been texting and talking to this girl he knew from back in the day but what really made me mad is the fact he would go and kick it with her in the mornings after droppin me off at work. He periodically receives text message through the week in the middle of the night in the morning on the 2 work. i have talked to him about it and he doesnt seem to understand how this makes me feel, so now when we arque i just cant seem to shutup and i tell him mean ugly comments and get start to hit him with this bottled up rage. i know i just need to get up and leave but it would be easy if i didnt have 3 children from him...sorry for venting so much...

Posted 12/22/2010 3:44 AM (GMT 0)
Hi Pisces,

If he is openly seeing this woman and doesn't care if you care, I would definately be upset. I don't think it is very nice of him. Have you thought about couples counseling, or even counseling for yourself to help to get things moving. Maybe you want to spend some time away from him. Can you do that? I am sorry for what you are going through. I know how stressful this can be. You need to work on anger issues. I think you are finding it hard to get him to see how you feel and you get frustrated. So you lash out. Talk to a counselor and see if they can help you through this and support you. And keep posting here and know that we all care about you.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 12/22/2010 4:21 AM (GMT 0)
Thank you very much Karen

At this time I dont have any where else to go  stay away from him, these past few days we have been sleeping in  different bedrooms, so  im going schedule maritial counseling if not for myself first i shall keep everyone posted...

Post Edited (pisces80) : 12/21/2010 9:24:50 PM (GMT-7)

Posted 12/22/2010 10:48 AM (GMT 0)
counselling is a good step. keep being strong. with compassion, jamie
Posted 12/22/2010 11:46 AM (GMT 0)
I am so happy that you have decided on the counseling. Please let us know how it goes.

Hugs, Karen
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