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Posted 5/21/2011 3:02 AM (GMT 0)
I was raped by my ex boyfriend, I want to tell someone but I'm scared that my family will be disappointed in me and I'll get a bad name. But this has effected me so much, I feel so miserable, I don't know if I should tell his parents what he did and let them deal with it or should I keep it to myself forever?
Posted 5/21/2011 7:52 AM (GMT 0)
very sorry that this has happened. may i suggest getting support via your local rape crisis centre. they are wonderful. i did. counselling, referal and an understanding ear is what you will receive. plus heaps of info in regards to whom to advise etc. once again, i am very sorry. jamie you have been brave, keep being brave, we are here for you, jamie.
Posted 5/21/2011 10:21 AM (GMT 0)
I agree with Jamie,

You do need to talk to somebody about this so that you know what to do.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 5/21/2011 2:27 PM (GMT 0)
very very sorry this happened to you, please seek out help that the others mentioned
as that's a good start then seek out help from a psychologists or counselor...
again very sorry this happened to you and keep us posted as to how your doing..
Many Prayers and well wishes
Posted 5/21/2011 4:10 PM (GMT 0)
hey, I'm sorry to hear that, but dont worry you will be fine. Its nice advice to find counselors, they will so welcome to help you, and remember God will never ever leave you. He always be there for you. *prays*
Posted 5/21/2011 4:17 PM (GMT 0)
Hi there ilovewhatihadhavewillhave, I hope I got that right.

I just wanted to welcome you to that HealingWell Depression forum. Do keep posting. And have a great day.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 5/21/2011 4:20 PM (GMT 0)
Chamari,

Please don't feel guilty for what happened to you. It was not your fault. Know that no matter what, you did nothing wrong. What he did to you was wrong, nomatter what the circumstances were. Don't be afraid to tell somebody. It is best if you deal with this now instead of waiting. The longer that you wait, the harder it will be. Please get some help with this.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 5/22/2011 1:41 AM (GMT 0)
Hi Karen,

You wrote it right!! Thanks for your welcome!! I'll keep posting here =)
Have a great day..
Posted 5/22/2011 2:13 AM (GMT 0)
hi i love. welcome from jamie. :-)
Posted 5/22/2011 2:50 AM (GMT 0)
GO GET A RAPE TEST DONE AT ANY LOCAL HOSPITAL.  GET THIS ON RECORD NOW......PLEASE  NOW....NOW,,,,,NOW
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