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Have a boyfriend. Tell her ones its a steady relationship. And tell her you love him, and you aren't going to let that go. Works for me ;)

Soo im turning 14 she says im to young && when girl my age have that option they go out and do things. i told her am not other girls. i have a group all of us have boyfriends they play sports she dont know about this but what my point is its over 20 of us && only me && one other girl are virgins out of our whole group. truth is if i wanted to i would not be a virgin cause i have had plenty of chances.

i do not currently have a boyfriend anymore. just dont want one butt she annoys me with it her and my sisters cause everytime they see me talking to a boy. example. my bestfriend is a boy so we talk alot and they be like who you talking too i say quentin and then they say male or female. male of course. they better be no boyfriend cause you cant have one ! he annoys me alot

I remember being a teenager and how hard it is. You feel old enough for a lot of things, you feel like it is taking forever to "grow up" because in so many ways you already feel grown up. Most adults just don't seem to understand your thoughts, feelings, and so on and it sucks big time.

Sadly the one thing teens do not understand, and won't for many years, is how much the adults do really remember about what it was like to be a teenager, and a lot of what they tell you about things you should be doing or not doing is because, more often than not, they learned the hard way by doing the same things you are wanting to do at the same age and got hurt from it.

My suggestion to you is to sit down with your Mom and talk to her about how you feel and ask her why she feels the way she does about this. It probably won't get her to change her mind but if she is open and honest about it, you should come away with a new understanding.

Regardless, as hard as it is respect your Mom's decision on this and by doing so earn her trust so when you are older you can better enjoy having a relationship with a guy and more fully experience what it is like to fall in love.

Besides if nothing else in 4 short years you will be 18 and legally an adult. At that point it is up to you to call the shots, but on the flip side of that is that it is up to you to bear all the responsibility for your decisions.