getting by said...
I don't really think that there are many who want to "pop a pill" and move on. There are many who don't want to take medication and actually need to. I for instance, have a chemical embalance and need medication where there are some who have situational medication. I am sure there are a few, as you suggested, though that don't want to work through it and hope medication will take it away. Nobody wants to be <nobr><a id="FALINK_3_0_2" class="FAtxtL" href="#">depressed</a></nobr>.
If you have had a lot of <nobr><a id="FALINK_2_0_1" class="FAtxtL" href="#">counselors</a></nobr> telling you to seek doctor's help, maybe you should. Taking medication doesn't necessarily make you a zombie. If it does, you are on the wrong medication.
Speaking of <nobr><a id="FALINK_3_0_2" class="FAtxtL" href="#">wine</a></nobr>, alcohol makes you more depressed, so if you are drinking, that could be the source of your <nobr><a id="FALINK_2_0_1" class="FAtxtL" href="#">depression</a></nobr>. I only said that because of the way that you mentioned it.
Exercise and eating right can help with depression. There are also <nobr><a id="FALINK_1_0_0" class="FAtxtL" href="#">supplements</a></nobr> that can help. But if you are being told you may need medication and you are actually depressed, I would take it into consideration. But realistically, your comment about popping a pill, I don't see it. Not on a large scale.
I hope that you feel better soon.
Hugs, Karen...
Hi Karen, and believe me, not trying to offend and none intended( saw your response before edited)- the last thing I want to do. I just get the sense at times some find it easier to 'medicate the patient' (I'm writing of some therapists) instead of 'getting down and dirty' to work a situational depression through. I understand there are those,as I stated initially, that have biochemical causes for their depression and need medication- not writing of those cases.
I do know what it's like to have someone use a term or phrase in a derogatory manner, such as a person telling me "you must have missed your happy pill today"(snicker) because of my demeanor at that moment - not too helpful~
Naw, I'm not a drinker, though I do enjoy wine on occasion and such has never been a problem for me. Reason I used it to illustrate a point in post above. I also know how alcohol can trigger and exacerbate emotions, I saw it first hand in my father (and in some of his brothers), no fun being 10 yrs. old and getting jacked up by a drunk against the wall threatened with having to "fight the old man" to prove you are a man. And this from a "professional man", who on the outside exude confidence and success, but was really a "functioning alcoholic" (used to be known as "closet alkies"). But I digress...
Am trying the "natural" route first, still in trial stages ...
Thanks for your input Karen, much appreciated(and ya got me to state a little of me past, as painful as much is)