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Posted 1/16/2013 4:22 AM (GMT 0)
The methods my counselor gave me don't seem to be working well.. I know I need to give it time but for future refrence:
Should I tell him? I go to a faith-based counselor and the methods involve alot of religious aspects
I don't want to offend my religion by doubting this method I am keeping hope but it still doesn't seem to be working

In addition, he doesn't give me much time to talk.. He tends to talk very quickly and when he asks me a question he expects an immediate response with no time to think about it. Is this normal?

If I do decide to see another counselor I don't know how to bring it up. He is a very trusted old friend of ours and I would feel bad if I ask to go see another- possibly more expensive- therapist...

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.. Hope all of y'all are having a wonderful day! You're always in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted 1/16/2013 4:52 AM (GMT 0)
hi there. i would suggest that you look around for another therapist. sometimes it just doesn't gel. also i would suggest you be upfront with this person regarding why. the client / therapist relationship must be mutual, and if not then i strongly suggest you look around for someone else.

kind regards
jamie
Posted 1/16/2013 10:19 AM (GMT 0)
I think Jamie is right, look for another therapist. If you are afraid of hurting this person's feelings, maybe don't tell them. Just gradually quit seeing him. But if that isn't the case, then, I agree with Jamie, honesty... Either way look for somebody that is going to help you...

Hugs, Karen
Posted 1/16/2013 5:01 PM (GMT 0)
I would be honest with the therapist, he may be able to adjust to your needs, not being aware of what he is doing is disturbing you.

If he does not seem empathic than stop seeing him and look for another therapist.

I see a faith based therapist, but prayer and Christ is not mentioned every week. I talk when I want to. don't when I don't. that is the therpay part.

best of luck to you.
Peace
Trina
Posted 1/17/2013 12:10 AM (GMT 0)
Thank you all for your advice!

He seems to be a very one-session-get-better-immediately kind of guy and I need more than that..
We pay per session (not sure if everyone does) and finances are hard for us but were discount with him because he's an old friend

Ill talk it over with my parents though, thanks for listening! Have good weeks to come to all..
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