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Posted 3/5/2013 12:14 AM (GMT 0)
ok ever one this is my frist time posting on a form i am 27 fresh out of the army and i thought i be in there for ever but injurys stop that after that i lossed the girl i was marryed to she left because i wasnt make money and she cant be with a broke ass then after that i am liveing at home with my family i hate this i all ways thought i be alot farther in life then this. all my friend have gf and bf even kids i feel lossed alone locked in a time capullse
and everone and everthing i care about has and will contuine to pass me by i just lossed my job like 2 months ago so now i a sucking off unemployment and hell even got food stamps i hate that i am a health hard working person yes i kown i am prideful i belive in the old way a man works hard and serives on his own to be this low and lossed on what to do i mean i just dont kown what to do with my life now i blend in with my friends and girls dont nocited me and if i like a girl i dont ask her cause the frist things that go trow my head are dont bother your not good enough for her pulse i am kind of a cubby guy so it doent help i just wounder i life worth liveing at this piont i have had to borrow miney from my family just to pay some bill i feel like a real losser srooy all i just feel realy lossed and i can efored i psyicatic help so i truned here maybe some one can help me i am lost realy lost

ashrum
ps srooy all if u had to read this i cant spell good lol florida school system wink
Posted 3/5/2013 1:16 AM (GMT 0)
Welcome to the forum.

http://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome

This might help you out a little. I have heard good things about it and it is free.

Don't give up just yet. It takes time to find a good job and somebody to be with. Keep trying, never give up. I am sorry things aren't going well, but I am sure this is just a bump in the road. There could be a few before it is smoothe sailing. Just keep chugging along and take one day at a time.

I hope that things get better for you soon. I would check out counseling. They could help you get back on track.
Posted 3/6/2013 3:50 PM (GMT 0)
welcome to the forum!

Karen gave you a good link, I have you use it.

As a VET the VA has benefits you have hook into . I would start by calling your local VA advocacy office and ask about mental health/depression assistance.

qin; Also welcome to the forum. Sorry for you situation in China, I hear it is not very comfortable. The world economy is not good at all at the moment. Perhaps it will improve soon. we can only hope and pray.

for you both, do keep posting. We listen, support the best can for each other here at the forum. Always a good place to vent.

Peace
Trina cool
Posted 3/9/2013 7:28 PM (GMT 0)
hi ashrum,

i wish you good luck in trying to find some help. you have taken a positive step in posting here. always feel free to post again and talk about how you are feeling and what you are thinking. it does help.

i would second the suggestion of contacting the VA. many people who have done combat, for example, need psychiatric services and the VA should be able to direct you to some counseling or psychiatric help. there are also, in big cities, usually agencies that offer services on a sliding scale, depending on your income. try googling "low cost psychiatric services" and the name of your town and see what you get.

as far as women and your interaction, just skip over the ones that give you trouble. try and find someone who is caring and willing to listen. there are people like that out in the world.
Posted 4/25/2013 11:21 PM (GMT 0)
well things are looking abit up met a girl shes had alot of the same iusses and i got a job she will not date me yet cause she is trying to get her life stright but i am looking foward to being around her but i will keep u all informed all ty and i am geting va help
Posted 4/25/2013 11:22 PM (GMT 0)
still a bit sad thought i love to have a gf in my life
Posted 4/26/2013 11:35 AM (GMT 0)
ashrum3

I am glad to see you are getting help through the VA. Remember you served and are entitled to get care there. Are you seeing a therapist or just a psychiatrist? I fought for a long time with myself about going to see a therapist, but it does help to talk to someone about things. It took my VA psychiatrist to push me hard to start therapy.
Hope things keep getting better for you.

Take care,
Bill
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