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Posted 6/11/2013 12:29 AM (GMT 0)
I am very frustrated I saw a friend downtown today I tried to say hello and my friend just got mad because I tried to say hi I don't think he wants me to have any friends because he is worried I might run away from the place we share together our apartment we signed a lease I thought things we going to be ok and then all of sudden I lost my facebook and he took my phone let it go dead and took all the people that I was friends with out of my phone so I could not call them if we got into a fight. and he is telling me that Noone will help you like I do with all your sezuires and your other helth problem. Alexis
Posted 6/11/2013 1:30 AM (GMT 0)
Alexis,

He has done this before to you. I would try to find another place if you can. When does the lease run out? You can always try to break it because the two of you may not be compatible. This is outrageous. Don't give him control over what you do...

I wish you the best...

Keep us posted.

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 6/11/2013 1:55 AM (GMT 0)
I will see what happens going to take it a day at a time. I am dealing with alot alot right now The lose of my family is really getting to me. Dealing with maybe having to go bankrupt in alot of debt so I think we are both just over welmed. Alexis
Posted 6/11/2013 2:57 AM (GMT 0)
you right been living together for 2 yrs he just said if you want to leave then just said to me if you want u can leave or I wil and I can't break the lease we just sighned in feb we are on it together for 1 yr i know u can break them but I am worried if something happened to me health wise and no one is here Alexis
Posted 6/11/2013 6:34 AM (GMT 0)
When I first saw your post, I was going to say this is a tell tale sign of partner/ spousal abuse. Like Carl said, one thing at a time, one day at a time. But worst comes to worst, there's always women shelter you can go hide for a while. And with technologies nowadays, you can always backup your contact on a cloud somewhere. iphone has icloud, andriod has google drive, and Microsoft has skydrive. Almost everyone offer offsite backup of your contact. Some phone carriers even offer backing up of contacts service for a fee. Another thing is, please neverever share password of your facebook account even with your partner. They should remain private.
Posted 6/12/2013 12:25 AM (GMT 0)
Thanks, Everyone ,

Today was a good I was pretty busy today had a drs appt had to get an x ray of my back then came home and just  been relaxing since. ALEXIS

Posted 6/12/2013 9:06 AM (GMT 0)
That is good Alexis. I am glad you are feeling better. Take care sweetie...

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 6/12/2013 1:40 PM (GMT 0)
Thanks Karen,

We are both stressed cause I might have to go bankrupt as I have  alot of debt and its getting harder to pay it off as I am 7 thousand grand in the hole I was supposed to be getting a line of credit from my bank but not heard back yet I will wait till around 3 pm today if they have not called I will either call them or just walk to my bank as it is not from from my place. This is why I have been really stressed lately because of this I even cried. Alexis

Posted 6/12/2013 2:27 PM (GMT 0)
I am sorry about your debt. This is the debt your mother caused right? It seems like she should be responsible for it. This just isn't fair. But you will get it straightened out I am sure. Maybe talk to an attorney.

I hope you get the line of credit.

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 6/12/2013 5:16 PM (GMT 0)
Hey Karen,

I have a meeting with the bank today I called have to see them at 2pm no some of the debt is from me just trying to live and be able to eat for a month cause I am on a disablity pesion only till I turn 65 and they only give you enough to pay rent food and alot of my own money out of my disablity was going to my debt I was loosing like 300 dollars every month just to my two cards I have it just upsets me that it has to come down to this I have cried alot about it. Alexis

Posted 6/12/2013 8:04 PM (GMT 0)
It will all work out. They can't get blood out of a turnip as they say. Take it one day at a time. Stay mindful. You will get through this.

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 6/12/2013 8:13 PM (GMT 0)
Hey Everyone how is your day mine is great just got good news and so happy my day couldn't get any better.Hope your day or night is going well. Alexis
Posted 6/12/2013 9:32 PM (GMT 0)
Yay Alexis!!!
Posted 6/12/2013 9:59 PM (GMT 0)
MMMMMMMMMMMM........

I am hungry too!

It is a nice fat juicy steak on Alexis. Yummmmmm...

LOL...
Posted 6/13/2013 12:49 AM (GMT 0)
Yea I guess Dinner will be on me but it can only been done through the computer Lol. You guys just made me start laughing when I read what you wrote. Just had to go walmart and get some fresh fruit strawberries and diced peaches in the cups I eat fruit every morning with orange juice or water I love you guys you made my day Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Alexis
Posted 6/13/2013 1:21 AM (GMT 0)
Hey, it's cool. I like that you always have fresh fruit for breakfast. I eat a lot of fresh fruit and vegies too.

Have a good night!!!
Posted 6/13/2013 3:10 AM (GMT 0)
Hey Karen Same to you :)
Posted 6/14/2013 8:27 PM (GMT 0)
Hey Gonna miss you carl hope you have lots of fun and enjoy a break from work :)
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