Best friend got a boyfriend:(

Hello I am sorry that you are having a rough go right now.

I will say that you are a good friend as to being happy for her and you also need to step back a little and let her have her boyfriend, and it sounds as if this is what you are doing.

I know how hard it is to make friends when you are depressed and unsure of yourself.

I know that the only thing that helped me was that I put myself out there and just talked to people. Yikes! For me that was hard as I also have nasty anxiety.

I made a few friends but none as good as my 5th grade friend.

Now I am not sure that your friend thinks he may be too clingy, she may find it flattering that he wants to be with her all the time.

This is okay toom she likes this boy and thats okay, only true friends will stay in our lives no matter who is in their lives.

Try to get a long with this boy for your friend and show her that you are not going to leave her life because of him.

I hope something here has helped you. Please update us when you can.

We all care and are here for you my dear.

Oh and just so you know sometimes a good cry is just what we need. Never be afraid to speak with your family.

Thanks guys for all your advise I was feeling real low until I got your comments xx I know you say to talk to family but the last time I did that my mum cry for months and I don't want to put her through that again x I will try to make new friends as I go back to school this Monday Yikes! If you don't mind listen to me I would love to talk again as I don't do much of this at home or school x Thanks again xx SDR

Hi me again! xx
My first day back was better than I expected xx Me and my friend cleared things up and we are stronger than ever but I have now come to another problem... I went to student services (before the Christmas term ended) to talk my English teacher about my problem with reading. I absolutely hate reading!! And we have to read a book every term, so I said to him do you mind if I have a smaller book or do an essay instead and he was fine with me reading a small book. But... today when we had to do a presentation about the book we read he had a go at me and said that's for primary school kids to read I want you to read books for your age. I told him that im struggling to read the book I read but he insisted on suggesting other books that were about 500 pages long. In the end I said that I would get some ideas from my friends but I am really not coping with reading all these books every term and I hate books more than I ever have before because they cram my head with them! Its really messing with me and I don't know what to do right now. I told one teacher and of course it spread really fast now every lesson I go to the teacher says to me there favourite book. Im having nightmares Please help meee im exploding with tears.