My boyfriend is depressed

It truly isn't your fault. And the only thing you can really do to support him, is talk him into going to a doctor, or psychiatrist. And counseling. These are two steps that can get him on the road to healing.

Be supportive, but if he wants to be alone, that is normal. Try not to push, just suggest things.

I hope that he feels better soon.

Know that none of this is your fault. He owns his depression and it is up to him to get better...

Hugs, Karen...

That is too bad. It is hard to get better without help, though not impossible. I sure do hope that he feels better soon.

I know that this is hard for you. Post whenever you need because it does help. This could be causing you stress.

Hugs, Karen...

You probably don't feel like you got much advice, and there isn't a lot to give. When somebody we love is depressed, it is so hard for us. And they are feeling guilt too for making situations hard to deal with. So let him know you understand what he is going through. Like I say, no pushing, that just makes a depressed person back off even more. But let him know that the door is open and that you are there for him.

Gently try to get him to seek counseling and a doctor. It is going to take time for him to get better even if he does seek help. That is why you got to take care of you too.

I sure hope that this helps some.

Hugs, Karen...