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Posted 11/9/2014 6:38 AM (GMT 0)
Hello
I'm new to this cite I'm.here because I'm having we'll depression it's bin 5 months now it all started in.march.the 6th i had an iud and everything was fine then entering.the 5 month with it i started feeling sick

I've never had children so in a way i guess i Brought.it upon myself, after i got the iud removed i got the depo provera shot was a major mistake i got ovarian cysts and my healthy lifestyle.exercising went in a different direction i didn't workout for 3 months with constant pain nausea cramps feeling sick to my stomach so i gained some weight adds to my depression which sucks..

The treatment i was getting with the doctors at the hospital was not helping pain meds for nausea it was horrible not having my period since march 6th it's bin stressful frustrating my now husband cares for me says he loves me that im his wife and he loves me i took acupunture and tradicional chinese Medicine for the cysts and it helped got.rid of the cysts but still no.menstrual cycle its frustrating and stressing i feel like i dont deserve to be married to my husband hes so wonderful to me says he loves me so much and feel like i dont deserve him this has got.me so.screwed up im even binging on food

i never did that my hormones are completely out of wack i just feel i should leave him and the sad.part is weve only bin married for five months its ****up on my account that i feel.when he hugs me says he.loves me i feel like im lying to him i just cry and stress about this i feel he deserves better anybody has any advice for a person who just wants to throw away everything and.push an amazing guy away i feel so depressed i.just feel done with ):

Post Edited By Moderator (BnotAfraid) : 11/9/2014 8:57:16 AM (GMT-7)

Posted 11/9/2014 10:39 AM (GMT 0)
Hi Belin666,

Welcome to the forum. I am so sorry for what you are going through but I think that the depo shot has got you thinking depressing thoughts. Don't push your husband away. You need that support. You need him and you know it.

See a psychiatrist or a psychologist and get the ball rolling to feeling better. You will probably have problems until the shot wears off.

Hang in there and keep posing. It does help. I Hope that you feel better soon...

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 11/9/2014 4:01 PM (GMT 0)
welcome to the forum.

Reaching out here is the first step in getting help.

try to hang on to your husband. He is your best support.

You need professional help. Between the horomones and the depression there is a lot going on. If you can not avoid a therapist or a Pyschiatrist, go to a local clinic. If that is not possible, try pastorial counceling at your church.

Joining a depression support group may be a good idea also. Being with people that understand the feelings that you have is a very calming and validating feeling.

Keep posting here, we are here to support.

Check out our resource thread at the top of the forum for links and books that may help.
Peace
Trina
Posted 11/9/2014 10:22 PM (GMT 0)
So sorry you are struggling. I agree with the others you need professional help- a family doctor or psychiatrist and a therapist if possible. Depending on your financial status, you can get all of these based on sliding scale fees or maybe even free.

The Depo shot caused my friend to get very depressed too & she gained a lot of weight on it. She ended up going on antidepressants & they have really helped her. It can take awhile to get out of your system- it should be leaving your system soon.


Depression makes us feel not worthy and makes us think people would be better off without us. That's just not true- that is depression, NOT you. Once you get your depression treated, things will get much better.

Sending you peace & healing-
Lisa
Posted 11/10/2014 9:02 PM (GMT 0)
Typically, it's never good to make major decisions when we are feeling down. Your husband sounds like a great guy! Try not to be so hard on yourself, and keep in mind that it may make him feel loved to have the honor of caring for his bride. A good counselor may be able to help you change your perspective and walk through this with the best outcome possible. HUGS!!

~Ducktapetherapy77
Posted 11/14/2014 1:34 AM (GMT 0)
Thanx everybody for all you're advice i really appreciate it it has bin hard but my husband says i have bin strong ive bin so moody and sad a depressed but i have made an appointment with my doctor and ill start treatment this Monday because i want to go back to how it was before i wanna start working out stop thinking about ridiculous things look forward to everyday and not be dreading ugh my dad is better now and i saw him yesterday at the hospital i did not cry showed i was strong and hes home now doing better so looking forward to tomorrow and the next day cause i will be ok i appreciate you're advice again and sorry if my grammar is all over the place no more stressing no more gona be strong and healthy again xoxoxo you all are awesome <3
Posted 11/14/2014 3:45 AM (GMT 0)
So glad you are doing better.

Peace
Trina
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