nivram said...
It's very interesting to read what you all have to say with your experiences with wieght gain and weight loss after being on zoloft and tappering.
After reading the posts and looking back on my daughters weight gain it seems true that she did gain more weight and faster after she tappered to 25mg and stayed at that dosage for a couple of months.
She has been very short and irritable with friends and family. More tears and has become withdrawn from kids at school again. I'm not sure if its the weight gain or maybe just that she still needs to be on meds because of dysthemia. Althought the Doctor gave her Welbutrin to try, she won't, I think its because she's afraid that it will cause weight gain. The doctor said she hadn't had anyone in the five years she has prescribed gain off it.
My daughter is going as far as going off her birth control this month because maybe this also contributing to her weight gain along with her increased appitite, and cravings. Has anyone noticed this to be a contributing factor while on zoloft?
The gain she has is alot like Amelia and some of the others have talked about. In her stomach area, loose flab that hangs over her pants and in her back area that she calls her love handles. Grant it that this is wear she would carrry her extra weight. This weight just really came on fast, like I stated earlier, summer and fall. the gain is also showing in her face, she told me she had a chin she never had before.
She has been off now for about 4 weeks I do believe. She is afraid to get on the scale because she is afraid that she has gained more instead of less. She has been trying to watch her calorie intake by doing the WW point system, although she was doing this while on Zoloft and still put on many pounds, Like someone had mentioned, it seemed she would put lbs on by eating lettuce.
I feel helpless for her! She will go Thursday to see a dietion on this Thursday, I hope she can give us some answers or help information. I will be sure to share with all of you! It just seems so unreal that a person can gain like she did.
It hurts me to see her so selfconcouis when its really not her fault! Just when we thought she was getting her self worth and confidence back this all started to show up.
Any advice or personal stories would be of great help, we felt so alone in this until I found this awesome sight. I find myself checking the sight many times a day, for this is every day battle.
Getting out of bed and trying to find something to wear everyday has been a very hard battle, I hope she starts to see a difference soon!!!!!!
Thank you again to everyone and please keep the posts coming and I wish the best to each and everyone of you. Even thow I am not going through this personaly, I feel the pain and disapointments that my daughter is going through, there for I am also feeling pain!!!
I'm still on Zoloft and I've gained so much weight that there are just no words to describe how it feels...but all I can say is to keep being there for your daughter. Make sure you reinforce to her that the weight gain wasn't her fault...it was out of her control...it was the Zoloft. Emphasize to her that she is still beautiful and that you would love her no matter what size she was. I can only imagine how hard it is to be a teen and going through this. The teen years are hard enough on their own! Bless her heart...and yours. I'd also suggest that when you go shopping try to get her to focus on the fashion and not the size label inside. Some of the most beautiful and fashionable people I know are plus size. Remind her that it's just a label and it doesn't define who she is as a person. I know that's easier said than done. I have to remind myself of that all the time and it's not easy to feel good about yourself when you see all these beautiful clothes coming out and they won't fit you! But it's important...she needs to be secure in herself and now is the perfect time to teach her that inner beauty is more important than outer perfection. I remember when I was in my 20's and first started taking Zoloft...before they knew about the weight gain as a side effect...my parents really read the riot act for "letting myself get in that shape." It devastated me because I knew it wasn't ME!!! I was barely eating and working out all the time and still gaining weight and when I did eat like a "normal" person...I gained even more! They were profusely apologetic when they found out that the weight was caused by the Zoloft. I've come to terms with it for myself but then again, I'm 35 and not a teenager. I need the medication to manage my OCD. As a result, I won't be getting any of those pretty clothes we see strutting down the runway but I try to get the prettiest clothes I can in my size and fortunately there are so many places for women to do that now. Also, I've know a lot of rail thin, beautiful women that were just as beautiful on the inside...and some that personified the saying "Beauty is only skin deep."
You both hang in there. I haven't seen your daughter but I know she is a beautiful girl...and she has a beautiful mother! Good luck and keep in touch...this place is a God send!!!
Post Edited (snickersmom) : 11/28/2005 11:28:59 AM (GMT-7)