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Posted 11/15/2019 11:19 PM (GMT 0)
They can not do anything about your other job.

Do not tell them where you are going to be working. It is not their business and not required when resigning.

Good luck in your new job!

Peace
Posted 11/17/2019 6:57 AM (GMT 0)
I wouldn't report them in a retributive type way until you're securely in your next job and you know for sure that nobody is going to call there asking for references etc.

People like this are best ignored. If they can't get a rise out of you, it takes the fun out of it for them and they'll stop most likely.

Some people are just so miserable with themselves that the only way they can feel good is by making others feel bad. Don't let them win by giving the things they say any space in your mind. You just do your job well until you start the next. Don't give them the satisfaction of feeling like they 'chased or forced' you out.
Posted 12/18/2019 8:42 PM (GMT 0)
Well, i did not yet report them. But, in the first week of my new job, The exact same rumors, that the women at my other job were spreading are spreading in this mall. It seems like I am being stalked by them. During my shopping trips in the old mall, employees whisper to each “that’s the girl who...” It’s almost apparent that they showed my picture to lots of people in the whole mall. I don’t even know how I can even prove this. I didn’t do anything to deserve this crap. They are sociopaths.
Posted 12/19/2019 12:26 PM (GMT 0)
Sounds like they are sociopaths. I am sorry for what you are going through. I hope things change for the better.

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 12/19/2019 10:13 PM (GMT 0)
S2BS,

wow. Remember that, in caring for your parent, you are doing something none of those 'women' could even conceive. Yup - they're completely insecure with themselves and know you're a far better person than they could hope to be. Keep your head up - you are amazing!

Good luck with the new job - keep private what should be private - at least until you find someone you can trust.

Take care and Ease....

Brian
Posted 12/21/2019 8:20 PM (GMT 0)
Try to just focus on your job. Try not to think about them. This will blow over especially when your fellow workers get to know you. You don't need all this drama. Ignore it. You can control your reaction to all of this. Have a great holiday!!!

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 12/22/2019 7:49 PM (GMT 0)
I agree with Brian and Karen

Leave this situation where it belongs, in the trash

do not talk about it at your new job. It does not define who you are. If some one asks, you do not know what they are talking about.

Move on with your life.

Peace
Trina
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