very depressed help plz!!

my relationshio with my husband hasnt been well for a while.  but i finally blew up at him last night, he has built own little apt downstairs. he in a very mean tone asked where the plunger was and i screamed at him, not to talk to me in that fkn tone anymore, and that when i get a job and on my two feet im leaving and taking my daughter with me, he said your not taking her anywhere. no body helps around here, nobody, ok so he works two jobs, but he can get on the kids to help me, i cant do alone. if i lived in a little room like he does my room would be clean too, my daughter sleeps with me. She afraid of her older brother with good reason. I cant leavbe her, hell i cant even leave ia have no money, I want our relationship to be good, but I am guessing its beyond that now.

he wont hurt me or her, and i started the fight, becuz he was talking in a down to me voice, which I was getting sick of. I went bezerk and asked why he was talking to me in such a frking tone, thatts when i snapped and said when i had a permanent job i was leaving, and my girl got upset and said take me with you jae will beat me up, and he will jae is her brother, thats why i take her with me to protect her from her brother. Her father loves her very much so do I.  I have been out of a job a long time now, and hope to find one substitute teaching this falll hopefully turn into something perment. ANd thats when i would leave for two reasons, the two kids dont get along. And i fear for the younger ones saftey, and i know my husband doesnt have feelings anymore. but he would never hirt me. I have no where to go til i make money.

no, and yes I fear the younger one getting hurt by the older one, things have calmed down. I m still very depressed, with my husband working two job kinda hard fir counseling in there, i wish we could.

I have started the wellbutrin, maybe need to be on a higher dose and not on the extended release kind just the regular kind,maybe twice a day.