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Posted 6/9/2008 4:37 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Restless,

I am happy that your trip is over. Get some rest now, things will seem easier when you are less tired.

I can't imagine living with a child that is so disrespectful. I know that must be so hard for you. This will all come back on her in time, though I know that doesn't help much right now.

I will pray that she starts treating you better. If it was me, she would be out that door. And I would say don't let it hit you in the you know what. But I know that isn't that easy for you.

Luv and hugs, Karen...
Posted 6/10/2008 5:33 AM (GMT 0)
Today i had a good sleep and feel so much better for it .I had to see the dr this morning and she said i needed to go on antibiotics for this bug as my chest is so bad so will pick them up this afternoon when i drop my son to work .While there she wrote out a referral to see the new psychologist on thursday and told me that i really need to see her and not put it off any longer .I know she is right but i just do not want to bring all the past up again .I will have the little bub i care for on that day so it will be hard not sure what i`m going to do i really can`t take her there with me and yet i don`t want to leave her home with my daughter for obvious reasons.But will see how i feel tomorrow .
Sherly how are things going in your neck of the woods .Are your children at home or do they attend school through the day .My youngest has just arrived home from school and at four he works in the pharmacy for a couple of houre but he is never a problem as he is helpful most of the time .
It didn`t take long before my daughter was at me again it was s much more pleasant here last week when she was away and all i can do is look forward to the next time she goes .She said she will miss my birthday and i really do not care what she thinks anymore and will enjoy it more without her.Anyway i`m over birthdays now i never look forward to them as it only reminds me so much of everything i have missed out on in my life.
Getting by i really do not plan on her changing but more look forward to the day she moves out then i think i will be more able to handle all my other problems .I just think that life will begin for hubby and me after that as for the past twenty years our lives have revolved around this one child .Even my other kids can see what she has done to the family .No matter what i do or try i just fail so i have given up now .Each day i wake up i`m one more day closer to the day she will leave .
Restless
Posted 6/10/2008 11:42 AM (GMT 0)
Restless

I think I need to get onto your case a little bit. I understand that you love watching this child,BUT. You need to take care of your first. Obviously no one else is going to help you,so please figure out a way to get into that doctor. Even if it means that you tell the parents that you can't watch her for a day. I am sure they know that you have health problems,so this is something that they probably except to happen once in awhile.

I really think your daughter needs to move out now, she is doing nothing but harm to you and your family.
You have to focus on healing from everything that you have been through. I wish your husband would put his foot down.
Posted 6/10/2008 12:31 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Restless,

I think that Shy is right, you need to keep your appointments. You need to take care of you. I know that you are waiting for the day that your daughter moves out to get some type of normalcy out of life, but can that continue to wait on her? Either way you are in my thoughts and prayers. Maybe you have a jpoint of letting everything play out with time. We just worry about you and want you better now. But that is easier said than done. So try to keep yourself top priority and move on with what you are comfortable with.

Thinking of you
luv and hugs, Karen...
Posted 6/10/2008 1:00 PM (GMT 0)
Restless, I amhanging inthere, same ole same ole.

I am glad you got some rest last night.

I do not envy you, and I know my time will come where I am in the same position, telling the kids to leave, i think they thnk they are gonna stay here forever. I will go nuts if that happens, they do not understand the pain i feel, nor will they ever. Dont think my husband will eiather.

Ever since my son was born then my daughter, his train of thought is its all about the kids, he has not got his proirties straight.

enough about me, this is about you, the sooner you get her out, the happier you will be, that sounds mean, but true, and only hope you and your husband can have a life again, something I dont think will happen with my situation.

I know all this easier said then done. beleive me i know easier said then done. My thoughts and prayers are with you, dont lose hope....

Posted 6/10/2008 2:41 PM (GMT 0)

Good Morning Jane,

I am glad you made it home safe and sound.  I am going to start you a new thread and I will include the last couple of posts.

I will mark it Part 2 so please do not use this thread anymore.

Thanks
Kitt

Members see part 2

Posted 6/10/2008 3:15 PM (GMT 0)

All Members.......Please post to Part 2 of this thread..........started on 6/10

Thanks
Kitt  :-)

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