I really do not know what to thing .

Oh kitt this must be all so hard for you and all who know your sister and for her to see whats happening .I really do hope she gets to spend thanksgiving at home with her family there it will surely be one to remember .But tell her never to give up hope all the prayers being said for her hopefully he might just pull one of those special ones out and give to her .One thing atleast is she is not alone the family and love around her is something i`m quite sure she appreciates as going through it on your own is so hard and frightening indeed.Your sister is certainly a frighter as are you the courage you give to everyone in need is truely remarkably .
I am taking the pain meds but like all the other meds i have been on it`s causing more problems that i can`t go into on here .I know its making living all that harder and at times .,ok well not to worry it doesn`t matter .
Am planning some time for me this week i`m going to have my hair done and that usually takes a few hours just to be by myself if you know what i mean ,not sure how much longer i will bw able to have it done like this as it`s just getting so expensive and hubby is just so on to me about spending money .Thank goodness i looked after two little ones this week it will cover mostof this one .
Any way i had better get a move along and get my work done before i start to feel too sick to move .
I hope you have a great day .
Jane

Hey Jane,

I need a hair do too..........what do you think of blond with pink streaks..........

I will go with high lights and low lights as usually. I love the part where they wash your hair and massage your neck and shoulders.

We do need to do more for us.  So lets do it. 

My sister has no hair and I love to rub her fuzzy head.  She laughs when I help wash her hair when she is in the shower. She wear a cute white knit cap, well we are in the snow belt so she fits right in now.

Thank you for all your prayers and know you are receiving many on angels wings.

Love you my friend

Kitt

Kitt i know your pain so well .I nursed little children with cancer when i first became a nurse it was just so hard for everyone involved the family the patient and the nurses because over time you become so attached to the ones in your care they are like family to say the least ,Well they were my family i left home at 15 and they were as close to me as anyone .The tears i shed for all those little ones who fought their battles so hard some who won for a little longer and those whos battle was just too great i cried so much in those frst years and it still breakes my hear to think back on those times .
I know the lord above will not let your sister suffer too much .I think the hardest thing for anyone to do is to talk about what they are feeling but then it`s really comforting to have one who can sit and listen even to their worst fears and death is one thing so many do fear.Probal=bly because we leave behind all those who we love and cherish so much .As you said you can see this in your sisters eyes now it`s a hard time for anyone to deal with .
I have lost a few people in my life who meant the world to me so who i will never forget my hardest thing to cope with is i never got to say goodbye to them as thiswas at the time i left home and was just to scared to return .
You have the oppertunity to say goodbye to your sister and share some sad but wonderful memories something i really wished i had the chance to of done .
It`s almost 20 yrs now since my grandfather left this world for his dream life and not a day goes by that i do not think of him and whis i had a few more minutes just to tell him how much he really ment to me .I`m sure he is up there with nana looking over us all and guiding us in everyday things.This i believe to be true ....I showed pictures of my children to a friend one day she never knew me or my kids and she told me my oldest daughter has an elderly woman standing with her hand on my daughters shoulder .As she described this woman to me i knew it was my grandmother to a T what she described was the spitting image of my grandmother ...My kids never saw her she died when i was six and to my knowledge they have not even seen a picture of her .I feel my nana is there guiding bek in every thing she does .
I feel when we leave this world we do go to another one where there is no pain or suffering in one way i look forward to it .
You have a beautiful bond with your sister Kitt and i hope that the time you have left together is full of wonderful memories .To remeber the fun things you did as kids growing up together will bring much laughter to the both of you .
I will keep you your sister and familys in my prayers and when i go away next week will have a special mass said for all of you .
Take care and god bless to you your familys and especially your sister may he cuddle her gently in his arms and ease her pain.