in need of some good advise ~

hopefulinmo

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Posted 8/30/2009 6:40 PM (GMT 0)

Im a single divorced woman living in missouri , I divorced over 5 years ago, and have had a couple serious relationships, none of which have worked out . I have met a new man ,we met on line. We have been seeing each other for about a month now. I really enjoy his company ,however there are issues. He is still offically married, however seperated ,his wife living in another state.Apparently they are getting divorced at the end of the year,due to things with his business.,and taxes ect. I feel great when I am with him ,we get along terrificly. My issue is that I dont know just how serious he is ,or really even wants to be. Part of me says tostay away from him , yet the other part of me says to just keep things the way they are,and see what happens. Please advise !

getting by

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Posted 8/30/2009 7:38 PM (GMT 0)

Hi Hopefulinmo,

My question to you is. Are you depressed? This forum is for people who are depressed, not just having issues with their relationships. I will tell you that when you don't know what to do, do nothing. Take your life one day at a time.

In the meantime, if you are suffering from depression, please explain, if you want to, and we will advise the best that we can.

Have a great day,

Karen

Sometimes i am me (HT)...

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Posted 8/31/2009 9:27 AM (GMT 0)

hi hopefulinmo. i am jamie. the apparently worries me. follow your instincts. with compassion, jamie.

dx, mdd, severe borderline personality disorder.

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