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Posted 11/5/2009 7:59 AM (GMT 0)
On sunday I my family got a phone call to say a friend of the family had died a week ago on friday.

And that has set me back..... Now I feel really depressed again.......

WHY????????????????????????

Her furneral has already been and it was up north so we could'nt go to that it now it is going to be hard for me to let go....

From Sarah

Posted 11/5/2009 12:02 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Shuvvykins,

Grief is a different kind of animal.  We all go through it differently.  Remember that, and know that there is no time limit on it.  Embrace this, allow yourself to be sad and let it run it's course.  There is no right and no wrong here.  You might want to check out grief counseling.  It can really help, you will also meet others going through the same thing.

Either way, know that here we will support you.  Share our experiences.  When my first husband died, it took me two months of crying to get over it.  But I allowed myself to cry and be depressed.  That made it so much easier.  And crying is so cleansing.  And remember you always have the good memories. 

With this being said, I hope that your day gets better.  Always remember that we are all here for you.

Hugs, Karen

Posted 11/6/2009 1:17 AM (GMT 0)
my compassionate healings to you. it is a hard thing, grief. here for you. jamie.
Posted 11/6/2009 8:01 PM (GMT 0)
Thanks you guys........

It has been really hard and I feel like crying but it wont come out..........

Why do I have to feel like this???????

I have had lots of people die in the past and I do not cope well with it......

Well I am going to go now...

From Sarah

Posted 11/6/2009 8:16 PM (GMT 0)

Godschick said...

It has been really hard and I feel like crying but it wont come out..........

Why do I have to feel like this???????

I have had lots of people die in the past and I do not cope well with it......

I dont think that we, as humans are built to ignore grief and loss. We feel it acutely, but we also experience it differently, and each person has their own way of dealing. Ive lost more loved ones than I care to count and have wanted to cry so much, but at times I simply cant. I cant explain it, but please know you are not alone in this.

Thoughts and prayers with you-

Maz XX (Rev 24:1)

Posted 11/7/2009 8:33 AM (GMT 0)
I am at home tonight and I feel like giving up.....

I had a friend who had a guy friend stay at her place tonight so that means I couldnt stay the night there anymore.....

From Sarah

 

Posted 11/7/2009 4:38 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Sarah,

Please don't give up. You will make more friends. And just because your friend had a guy stay there tonight, doesn't mean there wont be time for you.

You are a wonderful person and I imagine that there are a lot of people that would like to be your friend.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 11/11/2009 8:25 AM (GMT 0)
Hey Karen

I just don't know what to do anymore.... I am really tired and depressed and it feels like the world is falling down................

I have walked away from God as well....

I just wish this would come all to an end...

Love Sarah

Posted 11/11/2009 5:35 PM (GMT 0)
Sarah,

Don't give up. Know that we are all here for you and that we really do care. Sometimes it feels like we just can't go on anymore. Maybe you need to rest. Take a day and relax and just do nothing. Sometimes that helps a lot. You need to give yourself permission to relax and let life just flow. Go with the flow of it for a change. Embrace it. I know that you can do this. You are a very wonderful person and we here can see that. KNow that we are all here for you.

Hugs to you my friend.

Karen
Posted 11/12/2009 8:14 AM (GMT 0)
Ok Karen,

I will try,...............

Hugs

from Sarah...

 

Posted 11/13/2009 7:15 AM (GMT 0)
I will try and hold on.....

It was really busy at work today and now I am felling really tired......

Might have an early night.....

Love from Sarah...

 

Posted 11/19/2009 12:47 AM (GMT 0)
Today I feel like crying.......

I feel tired and I feel like the cap of the bottle is about to burst.........

I am listing to some music to see if that will help me......

Hugs

Love from Sarah

Posted 11/19/2009 3:01 AM (GMT 0)
Hey Sarah,

I am glad that you are doing something that you enjoy. I always like to listen to music. It relaxes me.

Best wishes to you.

Feel better soon.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 11/19/2009 7:39 AM (GMT 0)
When I posted a post on someones topic I started crying earlyer as I was writing what I had to say......

I went and played bamantion with my next door neiouber and I really enjoyed doing it as it was my first time playing it.....

I had to put a bandge on my brusied hand so that I didnt hurt it any more....

As I wacked it on the corner of my bedside cabnet when I was in bed sleeping on tuesday night....

Anyway....

I am going to go now and try and get an early night....

Hugs

Love Sarah

 

Posted 11/19/2009 5:27 PM (GMT 0)
I hope that your hand gets better soon. I bumped the top of mine the other day. There is no meat there so it really hurt. But mine is better today.

Keep posting and let us know how you are doing.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 11/24/2009 8:29 AM (GMT 0)
Hey Karen

My hand is stll really bruised.......

I am have got really bad Hayfever at the moment so feeling yuck......

And I am really tired today....

Went to work and it was really busy.......

Tommorrow is my brithday(New Zealand date 25th of november)

Well I am going to go now....

Hugs

Love Sarah

Posted 11/24/2009 4:37 PM (GMT 0)
HI Sarah,

My birthday was on the 22nd. So you are a Sagitarious... That is a good sign. I am on the cusp of that and scorpio. I pick whichever horoscope sounds the best. lol... Sometimes I am scorpio and sometimes I am sag. MOstly sag. I think for some reason there should be two g's in it.

I hope that your hand gets better. Mine did, but I didn't bump it really hard, but enough to know it.

This computer is not working well. I need a new harddrive. I am thinking about getting a laptop. They are on sale at Walmarts I have heard. But doing posts gets hard, the keys type, but it doesn' t come up on the screen right away.

I hope that you have a good day. Take care, and keep posting.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 11/26/2009 2:26 AM (GMT 0)
Hey Karen

My birthday yestorday....

Went really good today and it was fun......

I am having a party this sunday.....

Today my sister got really grumpy with me and that has made me feel depressed....

I even cried.........

Well I am going to go now....

Hugs

From Sarah

Posted 11/26/2009 4:40 PM (GMT 0)
Sarah,

I hope that you didn't let your sister ruin your day. It isn't worth it. You need to strive to be happy no matter what. You desserve it.

I can't write much, have to work today. Unfortunately. I wanted to see my grandkids today and that didn't work out. But have tomorrow off. So that will be nice. Then I have to work the weekend. Boo hoo. But I will live through it.

Take care, be happy. You are a very special person and are worthy of love and happiness.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 11/30/2009 1:18 PM (GMT 0)
sarah, popping in to say hi. am here for you. i have an anniversary coming up myself, i haven't cried for a bit, but let me tell you i have cried an ocean already. it wil be the 3rd anniversary of my ladies passing on the 4th of december, yeah i will be emotional. but i will reflect on the true love that we shared-and still do!! jamie.
Posted 12/1/2009 5:49 AM (GMT 0)
Hey Karen

I am nearly crying because my great uncle died on saturday the 28th of november....

I miss him so much....

His furnale is tommorrow at 2pm (wedensday the 2nd of december)

My supervisor has let me have the afternoon off so I can go to the furnal and so that I can try and cope so I dont find it to hard tommorrow...

Love Sarah

 

Posted 12/1/2009 8:55 AM (GMT 0)
my condolences over your loss sarah. my compassionate healings and prayers are being sent. with kindness and love. jamie
Posted 12/1/2009 6:12 PM (GMT 0)
Sarah,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I replied to you on another thread, but wanted to let you know how much I care.

Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Hugs, Karen
Posted Yesterday 7:26 PM (GMT 0)
Thanks guys

I am still not feeling 100%....

The furnal yestorday was um yea ok.....

I found it a bit hard and I cryied......

Siobhan my birthday was on the 25th of november......

I went to my isreali dance group last night at 6pm till 8pm....... and I was telling a couple of people I started crying........

Well I am going to go now.....

From Sarah

Posted Today 4:25 AM (GMT 0)
Hi Sarah,

Please don't be worrying about crying.  It is cleansing, the more that you get out, the better that you will feel.  Grief has no set time limits, so anything is okay.

Try to be good to yourself right now as you are in a kind of delicate state.  You have suffered a great loss and it will take time.  Not sure how long, everybody is different.  Know that we all are thinking of you and extend a hand to you.  You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Keep posting, that is healthy too.

Hugs, Karen

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