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Posted 12/6/2009 1:04 AM (GMT 0)
Dear Jamiee,

 

I cant thankyou enough for giving me all these option's that i never even new about till now!!!! This will help me imensly Jamiee and first thing 2omorrow morning im going to centrelink to have a chat to them then i will call all the other places too.

Also about 6months ago i went to the Ministry in Frankston and they put me on a seg-3 and when i asked how long i would have to wait for a property they said it could be up to 3yrs??? I even told them about my situation at home but they dont seem to care. So i just have to wait. I also had a bit of a brain storm about accomodation and came up with an idea. What do you think about living in a boarding house,they are expensive but the price includes all accomodation,all meals,washing,no cleaning as they do it all,my own room for privacy with having an ileostomy/bag and they charge about $300.00 per week but that includes everything even food. So i would need money for my petrol,cigarettes & medication's. I wouldn't be left with much financially but id rather that than staying here and trying to commit suicide again which i really dont want to do but if my father pushes me any further i wont hesitate to do the job properly this time. Sorry Jamiee im venting again. Sometime it just flow's and i cant stop.

Look after urself and thanks again so very much. Hope you enjoy watching the cricket too!!!!!!! Thankyou,thankyou,thankyou.

 

sincerly,

 

damaged..........idea redface idea redface

Posted 12/6/2009 1:22 AM (GMT 0)
bev, hey i don't want that, nor do you!! i get your venting. boarding places, well did that, some are seedy. look at your local papers for maybe a small unit at the back of a house. also ask your mental health agency about housing as well. they sometimes have funds to help. and or know of something. maybe a decent caravan park. some are not as good as others, stayed in a few, but they can be good, esp the decent ones. keep me posted. try for a seg 2. you may qualify. seek clarification and ask the social worker to see if they can assist in putting you down for a seg2. no harm in tryin'. if i find more info i will advise. jamie
Posted 12/6/2009 1:41 AM (GMT 0)
hey, check out the info boards at frankston tafe as well. i found some good accomodation and work as well. u can put a note down as well. ie looking for accomodation, small flat/etc. i lived in mornington for some while, but that was 10yrs ago, i think it maybe expensive now. i think a private rental is the go, keep an eye on your local papers. ps my sister worked here in geelong with the big4 caravan parks, they are the most reputable. hope this helps, back to the cricket, very upset stomach. 2 weeks before school graduates, need to finish some crucial papers. cheers, jamie.
Posted 12/6/2009 1:47 AM (GMT 0)
  1. hey, just a thought, what about seeking any possible referals for accom from some of your clients, since you do a good job, thus they will know that you will be a good clean tenant just a thought. jamie. leave your details, word of mouth goes along way sometimes. good luck, just racking my brain. jamie
Posted 12/6/2009 2:24 AM (GMT 0)
Jamie,

I just have to say that you are such a sweetheart. I am sure that Beverly can use this information to helpn her.

Hugs,
Karen
Posted 12/6/2009 2:39 AM (GMT 0)
Hello again Jamiee Thx so much for trying to help me,ur so kind and it makes me cry knowing that people do care and understand!!! You truly have a heart of gold Jamiee and im sorry that ur not feeling to well 2day!!! Make sure you have a good rest. Getting back to the other, ive been told that these boarding houses are a bit dodgy and they steal ur clothing,drug use ect!!!! I think i would be better at a caravan park like you said or in a bungalow in someone's back yard. I have also called Jane she is the lady who own's all of those rental properties that im doing but the only thing is none of them are available till late next year and i cant wait that long. So back to the newspaper again and calling a few caravan parks. Anything is better than where i am right now. Hope ur feelin better real soon Jamiee and thx so much for ur feedback/help ect!!!!!

Hope ur team wins the cricket too.  take care  Jamiee.

 

sincerly,

 

damaged.....   xxxxxxx

 

P.S. WILL KEEP U UP TO DATE WITH ALL THAT HAPPEN'S!!!!!

 

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))

 

tHANKYOU AGAIN FOR GOING OUT OF UR WAY FOR ME........

Posted 12/6/2009 7:18 AM (GMT 0)
Hi who the hell do i talk to about all this stuff happening with my daughter?? My parents just came home didn't say anything to me i got upset and mum said whats wrong i said ask ur grandaughter she will tell you that shes sending me messages saying shes gonna jump off a building because im a so called mother. I tried to talk to my mum but as usual in the middle of me telling her about what beccy has been doing and saying she stood up and went over to my dad and said that plant doesnt go there,so i cracked it and said to my mum i dont know why i even bother trying to speak to you as you couldn't give a crap about anything other than money,money,money. My family are so disfunctional it's not funny. Im the only person that can express my feelings but none of them know how to even say anything. They just dont care at all. So no matter what now,im getting on a plane to England and i wont be applying to even come back to live as i dont want to. I've had it.........
Posted 12/6/2009 7:27 AM (GMT 0)
Hi have a read of my other thread and you will know whats going on ok.

damaged..... :(((((((((((((
Posted 12/6/2009 10:15 AM (GMT 0)
Oh well i thought it was too good to be true. It's been 5 hours and mum or dad has said nothing to me as usual;

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thanks to all........

im going to a special place.

my house of comfort...

 

 

Post Edited By Moderator (getting by) : 12/6/2009 12:53:37 PM (GMT-7)

Posted 12/6/2009 5:24 PM (GMT 0)
Beverly,

I started you a new thread, so please go to that one instead of this one. I guess this one was getting too long. I hope that you are feeling better today.

Know that you are a valued member here and we are concerned about you.

Hugs, Karen
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