Hi Bethers,
I am sorry that the abilify isn't for you. One other that I know about is risperdol. I liked it because it is more of an as needed medication. I just gained weight on it, but that doesn't necessarily mean that you will. There are other mood stabilizers that I don't know about.
I hope that somebody comes along soon with some information for you. I would consult the doctor about other options. Also the bipolar forum members might be able to share with you. As often mood stabilizers are used for bipolar medications.
I hope that you feel better soon. I don't remember having any stomache issues on abilify, but I did some with pristiq, though it only lasted a short while. Ask the doc if the issues will go away. Often side effects do.
Best wishes for a wonderful day.
Hugs, Karen