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Posted 12/28/2010 12:12 AM (GMT 0)
I need help moving on from a guy that I love. He's my best friend and he understands everything about me. One day I was depressed and I needed help on someone I trust, eventually one thing happened into another and we became a thing I really love him for who he is not because of what he did. One day I asked him if he really liked me and he said he did but there was another girl, not fully understanding the concpect I asked a week later the same question or if we could start dating, and he said he was gonna start dating the other girl. I was soo heartbroken, but I sort of already knew about the other girl. I just always hoped we would work and he would love me the same way back. he thought we were just having fun, I thought we were more than tht. He loves me soo much...but as a friend. He felt extremely bad about the whole thing, he didn't relelize how much I loved him. Now it's been weeks and I can't get over him. I love him so much. We decided during vacation that we wouldnt talk to each other so I could get him out of my mind. But its not working, I don't want to get over him, I just want to be with him.
Posted 12/28/2010 12:27 AM (GMT 0)
Hello and welcome to HealingWell. I am not sure how old you are but you sound like you may be a young teen.

I did edit your post as this is a family forum and we have members as young as 13 on the forum.

I do understand what you have been doing and I hope you understand what a dangerous thing you have gotten into. Sending pictures of yourself is a scary thing to do. Approximately 40% of teens say it is common for nude or semi-nude photos to get shared with people other than the intended recipient.

I don't think this person you feel you love is someone you should trust.

If your looking for a nice guy look for someone who likes you the way you are and do not get involved in anything that is dangerous for you.

I may be old fashioned but this feels unsafe for you.

Kindly,

Kitt
Posted 12/28/2010 12:32 AM (GMT 0)
oh I thought that this is what this website is for?
My apologiges could you recommend me a website where I can get god advice for free, I cannot afford therapy and need to get real answers.
Posted 12/28/2010 12:46 AM (GMT 0)
Sunny,

You are welcome to discuss your feelings of depression and share how depression is affecting your life but certain topics are not appropriate for the forum. I am sorry and in no way am I putting you down or judging you.

Teen Moods >- Teen depression support community.
http://www.teen-moods.net/forums/

This may be a site that you would like to check out.  Karen, the moderator of this forum, may have some other suggestions for you.

Be true to yourself and know we do care.

Kindly,

Kitt

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