Yeah, I just dont know.

I found out a lot of details about my parents seperation. Well, my mother shared that my dad cheated on her a few days after my birthday. And that she didnt tell us cause she didnt want us mad at him. My dad has also been "fooling" around after preforming at his concerts and stuff. He claims, "He found happiness in them". My mom said, its me whos making the house miserable. Pretty much saying, i made him leave. My sister will act like shes not going to yell at me, but when i talk back she screams in my face saying, "Thats getting you no where" or "Just shut up.". Which hurts, because thats my sister. I only expected that from my parents.

My mom takes everything so personal? Like, the other day i was dealing with an issue which was making me really upset and when she kept asking over and over "Why you so mad? What the hell did he do?" It got me frustrated so i told her its none of her business. Then she goes and crys saying we dont wanna hang out with her? And that i should just get out? Yeah, she pretty much kicks me out 6 times a day, then when i go to leave...she yells at me and tells me to go to my room.

I go to my friends for help, but all they do is say sorry. Theres literally no one that cares enough to actually say somthing besides my new best friend Mandi. :)

Well, the boy ive talked about in my last 2 posts, hasnt really changed. The other day we got in a fight for a few minutes and he said things like, "i dont care about you or your opinon." But after the fight was over he said, "I forgive you if you forgive me." So im not sure if hes saying, forgive me for saying i dont care. Or forgive me for getting angry.

I did somthing that i do with my friends, but this time it was at my house. My mom and dad caught me and shared that it was an expensive bottle and i just drank down hundreds of dollors worth of ...liquid.

I just dont know how to make everything better? How do i get my life back to the way it was?

Hello and I am so sorry things are tough for you right now.   Let's get something into your hurting little head okay...your parents divorcing - is not, in any way shape or form, your fault. If your parents cannot live with each other it is their problem.  I wish they would get   counseling as perhaps they both have common ground they could work through.

In deference to your Mother, finding out that her husband has cheated on her must have been devastating.

To begin with it is the shock that catches you and then sadness followed by rage. These emotions will come to your Mother no matter what she does and she  will need to move through these stages before she can ultimately move on. 

As for you,  you should never be caught in the crossfire and your Mother should never put the blame on you.

Sibling rivalry is normal in families with more than one child. There can be many reasons for this, but at the core of this rivalry is a common theme that runs through it all: the sense that you are   the victim of the other and somehow “less than your sister”

Respect runs both ways; perhaps you and your sister could make a pack to stop yelling and being  sassy to each other.

May I kindly suggest that you ask your Mom if you could see a therapist to help you understand what your going through and how to make things better for you.

Please stop blaming yourself for all that goes wrong at your house and start taking care of you.

Kindly,

Kitt