therapist

WG,

I know how it is to miss your meds. I forgot them one morning and I had a really hard day until I noticed that I forgot them. I keep a pill box, that might help you to remember. I take a lot of different meds though. Nine different things. So if I forget one, I forget them all. Well, ten different things with the Chantix.

Try not to let these things get to you. Start each day fresh as if the past didn't happen. If your boss hangs onto your mistake, it is their problem, not yours. Though they could make it yours by treating you badly. And if that is the case, then look forward to that transfer. Are they still going to transfer you?

Check and double check things. Your orders and such. Often we miss something. That is easy to do. So don't think of yourself as a failure. It is a mistake and that is why they call it such. We all make them. That is a part of life. All you can do is appologize. Maybe they can get what you need from another store. When you are placing an order, take your time. Don't let anybody rush you. I can't stand somebody rushing me. It makes me nervous and I do forget. My husband rushed me off to go shopping the other day and I forgot my list. I only missed two items on it though so that wasn't bad. But I can live with that.

Know that you are a fantastic person. Don't think lightly of yourself. You are smart, you are ambitious. And most of all, you are a good person. So always remember that.

With that being said, I am going to end here. I hopet that this finds you haveing a great day.

Hugs, Karen

You may WG or you may need to talk to somebody for awhile. That is your lifeline. And there is nothing wrong when you need somebody to talk to. Or to listen. He is an objective ear and that is what we need.

Don't feel bad for this. At least you are taking initiative to help yourself and that says a lot.

Keep up the good work. I see my counselor on a regular basis. Sometimes we just talk like friends. But it still does me good.

Hugs, Karen