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Posted 4/3/2011 5:23 AM (GMT 0)
 

Things are getting very tuff for me and i am not sure i am 22 with no college i work 2 jobs and working on getting a nother one. And for the first time i am about to be come a father but let i always feel like i am falling a part i have always been a person who keeps to there self i can t help but to think that i will never make it i hate to thing about my life and know i will never make it i tend to go from happy to sad for sad to mad so fast with out warning with very few ppl to talk and not know how to show my feeling i am just not sure what to do

Posted 4/3/2011 8:51 AM (GMT 0)
hi done deal. sounds like some counselling would benefit you. is there any support programs for new dads in your area? your doctor is a good place to start with, they have excellent info on resources amd programs to help you. you can be refered to a compassionate counsellor to help you deal with some of the stuff that is troubling you. it really helps, i am in therapy myself. my dr. is a good bloke as well, and i would be lost without him. talk it over with your dr. and keep posting as well. we care about you. hang in there, you have been brave in sharing with us, keep being brave and seek some of that assistance. with healing compassion, jamie, male, 38. no children. infertile, genetic disorder.

Posted 4/3/2011 3:12 PM (GMT 0)
Hi there,

Jamie is spot on. Get started with your doctor. You have been very brave posting here. That is good. It is your first step towards healing.

Keep posting, best wishes,

Hugs, Karen
Posted 4/4/2011 7:54 PM (GMT 0)
Thank You For The Help Its Just Hard To Make Things Work See I Do Work 6am - 2:20pm Then I Am Right Back Out The Door At 4:30PM And Not Back Till 11pm Its Hard for Me Not to feel like i have taken my girls friends life from her she only works part time she is 20 her mother has just passed away about 6 months ago and her family has really no idea that That her and I Are dating Or that she is pregent do to the fact that her family is racist and does not like the whole black and white thing it seems that she has to live to lives and that kills me inside And Just Make Me Feel like less of a person for taking her away for her father and sisters There is not a day that i don't wake up sick to my stomach
Posted 4/4/2011 8:13 PM (GMT 0)
Have you thought about taking some online courses? You may even be able to get a grant for college, if that is what you want. You could get a better paying job with a college degree and you wouldn't have to work two jobs.

It seems like you are trying really hard. Take it one day at a time. Try not to worry too much about what is in the future.

What makes you feel so guilty about your girlfriend living with you? Is it because of the family's feelings about your relationship? Or because you don't see eachother much? Or what? It looks like you are trying hard to keep the family provided for. You can also get help from the government if you come up short. So try not to worry. Things are going to work out for you. Be happy about the pregnancy. Enjoy the time that you do have with her. Try not to stress.

Hugs, Karen
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