Is my boyfriend crazy
Yes - 33.3% - 1 votes
No - 0.0% - 0 votes
Give him another chance - 66.7% - 2 votes
Posted 8/4/2011 7:02 PM (GMT 0)
There have been numerous issues of jealous and paranoia.
He plays baseball so he's on the road all the time. I recently started hanging out with a friend again that i've known since 6th grade. Last night I was on the phone with him, and I get a text from her at 10:45 at night asking if I was going to a concert. Pretty normal thing to talk about.
Immediately after I told him that she had asked me to go to this concert he went off. He said it was fishy and why would she be texting you at 11 asking about a concert. He kept repeating that it was fishy and weird.
I myself find this crazy behavior. I broke down and started crying. I've never cheated on any boyfriends I've had. I asked him why he was acting this way and all he could say was that it's fishy that she texted me at 11 at night to ask about a concert. Over and Over.
I need help with deciding if he was in the wrong and acting crazy like i believe. My mind is just boggled.
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Posted 8/4/2011 11:52 PM (GMT 0)
Maybe in his opinion it was late for her to be texting you. I don't know, is he suspiscious of you or her? Does he know her? Is it possible that he knows things about her that he doesn't like? Maybe he is stressed out or something. Or tired. I would try to over look this behavior unless he is doing this often. Then it is time to rethink your relationship and decide if you want a jealous man for a boyfriend. It is no fun, I have been through it.
Keep on posting and let us know how things are going. And welcome to the forum.
Hugs, Karen