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Posted 10/8/2011 11:00 PM (GMT 0)
hey guys,

with all this support and belonging i am feeling from being on this forum is truely amazing and im feeling much more positive today. im aiming on sorting this whole drama situation out with margaret (the one im made to call mum.) ahich i know will kill me very much along the way, then i want to focus on my study (THANKS ALOT TO KAREN FOR MAKING ME SEE SENCE OF SCHOOL!!!!!) and then i want to become a lawyer. a child lawyer or a family lawyer. i know some days are going to be hard and some days i will feel like giving up but with amazing people like you guys, i know i can get through this and make something out of my life in the end. im only 13 and i will face many more struggles in my life, but i only have one chance at life and i want to make tthe most of it. A BIG BIG THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO IS THERE TO SUPPORT ME!!!! I HONESTLY DO APPRECIATE ALL THE LOVE!!!!!!!! turn turn  

-jess

Posted 10/8/2011 11:57 PM (GMT 0)
Jess,

I bet that you would make a great family lawyer. You would have compassion for the children, and do what is right for them. Sometimes bad things even teach us good lessons. I wish for you the very best. And I am so happy to see you feeling better. I am happy you are happy!!!

Keep up the good work. And it is work.

Thank you,

Hugs, Karen
Posted 10/9/2011 12:03 AM (GMT 0)
Good for you JESS!! You sound very confident:) Your education is very important. Glad you realized that too. You are on your way! Hang in there and know that we are all right there with you.
Posted 10/9/2011 12:11 AM (GMT 0)
I am so glad to hear you are positive and ready to get your life back. You would make a terrific child's advocate. You are very bright and articulate, so I am sure you can fly thru school if you put some work into it.

You are very brave, you were meant to be here and we all know that you can do this.Keep us posted

Maggie
Posted 10/9/2011 12:18 AM (GMT 0)
thank you all for the encoraging feedback! i hope all goes well and i have all of you to thank for it if it does. sure, i may not like school, but its just a milestone i guess. my goal for next term is to put 100% into EVERYTHING i do. to think positive and to hopefully not fail anything. lol. wishing myself luck with that one though. i hope you are all doing well and are keeping positive. im only 13, but i have been throuugh more than i should have at such a young age. and i would like to see myself as a rolemodel too all young people my age going throuhg hell. there is hope, there is light and there is a aeppy ending if you want there to be one. keep your head up high, look towards the future, smile and stay strong (:

love jess
Posted 10/9/2011 2:30 PM (GMT 0)
You got it Jess, we are all so proud of you. You are our special girl member here. And we all want to look out for you as you can see. Stay strong hon. Keep trying. I am very proud of you...

Hugs, Karen
Posted 10/9/2011 3:02 PM (GMT 0)
Way to go Jess...a big WOOHOO for you and you will make a great lawyer...
Keep being positive hun and you sail on thru your school work...
So very proud of you....
Many well wishes to you....
Posted 10/9/2011 4:57 PM (GMT 0)
Jess,

This is really refreshing, look at how strong you are, look at the resolve you have found, you ARE our special girl member. Just remember, you don't always have to be happy and with your head high, just be true to you, whatever you feel is ok, even the tougher days, as long as they don't last too long.

Very proud that inspite of all you have going on, you are coping with dignity, Kia Kaha Jess, stay strong special one!!!!
Posted 10/9/2011 8:01 PM (GMT 0)
thank you all so much! you all give me so much to hold onto. you all make me feel so worthy of my dream, like i can achieve it, (if i stop being an egg at school :P ) but only if i stick to it, perservere through the hardships and just focus on the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.. (not sure how that saying goes.. LOL)
i am really excited today. im going to go around to my cousins house and babysit them. well, kind of babysitting, their mother will be popping in and out doing whatever she wants to. haha. theres a 3year old and a 1 years old. both very happy and lovable kids but hard work!!!!!!!! also, with my sore knee, i wont be able to run around as much with them. maybe if i just take lots of painkillers, the pain willl go away for good???? ( not gonna happen i know) i might just take them to the park. haha. thats an easy job. watching them run and have fun in the sun. (LOL, that rhymed and i just laughed to my self :P )
i hope all is well with everyone. and thank you for making me feel so special :)

much love to all!!!
from jess xx
Posted 10/9/2011 8:24 PM (GMT 0)
You sound sooo much better. It warms my heart, I can read a smile on your face in yr letter.

Yes, take the kids someplace where they can wear themselves out!!!!! Then take them home wash their faces and hands, feed 'em and put them down for nap.

You ARE special, each one of us a special project of God'.s

I have 2 15 yr olds here and their attitude is wearing ME out-LOL!!
You take good care of you and the babies-ttyl

Maggie
Posted 10/9/2011 8:27 PM (GMT 0)
You are very special my friend. I hope that you have lots of fun with the kids at the park. You are a good cousin, and I bet that they love spending time with you.

Keeps us posted as to what is going on when you can.

I just got done running my dog with some girlfrineds and their dogs. I will see how the pics come out and if I have some good ones I will send them to you. I got to put them on my computer first. It was beautiful out in the woods. The colors were in yellows and oranges. The dogs found a huge mud puddle, they enjoyed that.

Take care,

Hugs, Karen
Posted 10/9/2011 9:39 PM (GMT 0)
bayoub2,
yeah, i wish i could put them down for a nap!!!!!!! but they wont. especially the three year old. she will just scream. and im abit of a pushover with kids. LOL. i give them what tthey want. (within reason.) i love it when it comes to the 3 year olds (molly) meal times cuz she is soooooo fussy!!!!! its hard work for ANYONE to get her to eat a decent meal. but i have the magic words. the normal meal time convo is:
me- " here you go Molly, heres your lunch, now eat up darling"
her- " NO, i dont like this! "
me- " oh well, thats fine, you wont get any desert then. "
her- " i want some desert, i dont like this "
me- * gets out plate with what she has and eats food *
her- " ALL GONE JESS, LOOK, ITS ALL GONE!! CAN I HAVE SOME DESERT NOW " * with giant grin on her face *
me- " wow! you did eat it all, good girl! well done. im very proud of you Molly. eating like a big girl. "
her- " what the treat, can i have it now?"
me- " uhm, i beg your pardon miss molly?" * im fussy on the kids manners

her- " can i please have a treeat jess"
me- " oohh, lovely manner, you most certainly can! " * gives her a selection of schoices for a treat. says take only one. ends up giving her five * LOL !!!

KAREN,

yes, they lovve it when i come over, as i spoil them rotten! haha. i have muffins, chippies, lollies and chocolate biscuits to take over ot them. i love taking dogs for walks/runs. i run when im mad, or sad. ( lol, im rhyming again!!! ) im glad you enjoy yourself and i look fwd to mby seeing some pix :)

take care everyone !!

love jess
Posted 10/9/2011 10:26 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Jess

that food "convo" goes just like that with my 15 year old-LOL!!!!
Running must be good for the mad and sads, wish I could (too much arthritis, bursitis) especially with dogs-they are so funnny, they will always make ya smile

My warm wishes to Kare, stillme, awty , chartreux and you for a nice evening and sleep like babies

Maggie
Posted 10/10/2011 4:04 AM (GMT 0)
Hi bayoub2,

LOL!!! thats funny about your 15 year old. Im the opposite! I eat heeeaaappppsss! I dont stop eating and im not fussy. I just eat all food! HAHA! I know something is wrong with me when i dont eat because me without food is like a cat that barks?! (really bad figure of speech) Bottom line, I LOVE MY FOOD!!!!! LOL

Hope all is well with eveyone. Babysitting was HARD today! The 1 year old wouldnt leave his mummy and was all precious because he was sick and the 3 year old was sick too, so she was a little madaam, breaking the record for the most tantrums on 4 hours!!!!! All the screaming, throwing and tears aside, i enjoyed my time with them sooo much!

Im off to the sports surgeon tomorrow. Really nervous. I hope they say all is ok with my knee and that it will just take time to heal.

Love jess
Posted 10/10/2011 12:28 PM (GMT 0)
Make sure to let us know what the sports surgeon says. I hope it just has to heal too. Glad you had a nice time with the temper tantrum kids. I am so sure that you still loved it. Family can be cool.

Take care hon, keep us posted.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 10/10/2011 1:36 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Jess(my favorite name)

Good luck at surgeon today-glad you survived your visit w/ the babies. Three and one are hard for anyone, but so precious too. Let us know

Maggie
Posted 10/10/2011 8:35 PM (GMT 0)
thanks guys. will doo :)
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