Missing My Twin Sister Adrienne We will be 30 In September

As the summer is coming and my birthday is coming soon after I think it will be another hard year for me as I am starting to cry as I write this. She is my best friend she is my twin I almost lost her at 18 as he had to have emergency Brian Surgrey to replace a shunt she has to be able to daily fuctions. I just miss her and my family is just being a little ingorant and not even allowing me to speak  to her on the phone they control her so much she can't even go out with me for lunch or nothing with out getting in trouble if she has come home late which I find is a bit crazy. I just hate my family they have taken everything that means most to me. I need help again friends I just want to throw my computer scream yell you name it its going through my brain. Alexis

Carl Karen, JB1,

they are reasons why they are doing this to me they think I made a fake facebook up for my sister Adrienne and was on her account at 3 and 4 in the morning even though I am in bed sleeping at that time. and my mother frauded my name and has ruined till 2016 I am lucky I even have a place to live. Carl you made me laugh when you said if you lived closer I could punch you and you would not press charges. LOL. Made me laugh and smile at the same time. I will never get the chance to speak to her give her a hug and tell her how much I miss her all. No she does live with my parents she lives with my older sister shannnon and her husband Jim they control everything she does its pathetic she can't even go out by herself and enjoy life they have just ruined her seriously but I can't do nothing to change it they hate me in every which way possible. Alexis

Post Edited (lexipoo) : 5/23/2013 4:07:48 PM (GMT-6)

I agree with JB1 Alexis, you have to try to be happy in spite of what is happening. Things are going to get better. You are an adult, your sister is an adult. There will come a time when she will have the courage to speak up for herself. You two will be together again, mark my words... I have a good feeling about that. It just takes time.

I really apperciate all these kinds words and keeping me happy. I just want my sister apart of me getting older it hurts when your own so called family can keep my own Twin sister away from me. There is more to the story also I remember Adrienne telling me that my older sister was listening to our conversation. I metioned to her that you should not allow them to control you and not let you even go out for lunch with me its  insane I also metioned for her to move out and come live with me so I am not sure if they over heard that because she said to me on the phone once that my older sister Shannon asked Adrienne if I ever asked her to move out and Adrienne lied to her and said No because she did not want to loose contact with me. when we were able to talk on the phone. So what do you think of that? Alexis

Hey Alexis,

Sorry you're unable to contact your sister presently. I hope you two will get back in contact in the near future.
In the mean time, I think you should try to do something fun and something you enjoy for your birthday. Still try and have a good one in September. Plan something nice for yourself. You've been through a lot and you deserve it.

UA