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Posted 8/20/2013 12:55 PM (GMT 0)
Great... Just totally great... What else could go wrong right ? Wrong.

I thought my 2 weeks of holiday's gonna be great. I could do anything I want and best of all No School!!! Well, reality is cruel.

I had to babysit 2 of my cousin and my (not so little) little sister who screams at me all day, all night just to get what they want. I would give them but what they want but it's not allowed.

Not only that but choral speaking is cancelled this year, so much for that.... Why can't they plan things carefully ?

To top it all off, I'm not even getting any weekend this week. Extra school at Saturday and I also have to do this science project at Sunday and guess what ? All the students in my team are the ones that I hate the most, They ignored me !! So much for team work...

This is starting to annoy me like A LOT.
Posted 8/20/2013 2:59 PM (GMT 0)
JoJo

take a deep breath!! count to 3 and let it out slow....

this will pass and you will have plenty of time to yourself soon.
sometimes life does not go the way we want. It is just how it is.

In time you will learn how to adjust and accept changes instead of fighting them; easier to go with the flow and find the blessing then the down fall.

Peace
Trina
Posted 8/20/2013 5:16 PM (GMT 0)
Thanks Trina but I'm just soo tired right now. I'm just soo sick of everything and just really exhausted.

Can't I just have a peaceful day ? Oh, and I just found out what people think of me... Kind of weird. I guess I'm a weirdo now at school huh ?

I don't get it...
Posted 8/20/2013 6:18 PM (GMT 0)
No, you are not a weirdo, kids can be mean. You are who you are, be proud of that.

Practice self-compassion you deserve it.

peace
Trina
Posted 8/20/2013 6:23 PM (GMT 0)
Well thanks Trina, but seriously... It's not just 'kids'

I asked like almost all of my classmates and most of them thinks I'm kinda weird... Some of em said I AM weird.

I feel horrible now.. I told jokes to one of my close friend and she said she already knew all the jokes I told her and she told me I should catch up with what's in now... I am trying!!! I really am.
Posted 8/20/2013 6:35 PM (GMT 0)
You are making these people way too important. What people think does not define you. Besides who wants to be normal? Not me!!! I love who I am and you should love who you are. People who try to judge you are insecure. If they weren't, they would be helping you and not putting you down. I think you need different friends. People you can gel with. Don't listen to what they are saying. It doesn't matter. What matters is how you feel about yourself. You need to love yourself.

Do you see a counselor? I think it would help you to acheive some self esteem. Please talk to somebody, you are a good person and you need to know that.

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 8/21/2013 3:51 AM (GMT 0)
Hey Karen, thanks for the advice but no, I don't see a counselor... Guess I'll have to follow what Carl says huh ?

Hey again Carl, thanks for the advice too. I guess being weird is a part of normal, and normal... just doesn't exist I guess ?? Hahaha.

Well, about the choral speakers... the event had been canceled so, what do you want me to do ? It's up to you since I have no idea at all now.

I like your attitude Carl !! Beating up that living crap it is than !! Hahaha... Thanks for your time Carl, I really appreciate it (:
Posted 8/22/2013 4:08 PM (GMT 0)
Well, I had mentioned before that I wanted to be an interior designer, but I changed my mind. I want to be a psychologist instead ! Since almost all of my family members has psycho problems (not like crazy or anything, just stressed with things.) so yeah...

Joanne
Posted 8/22/2013 4:09 PM (GMT 0)
Is that a bad decision ??
Posted 8/22/2013 5:13 PM (GMT 0)
Ignore other people. Focus on YOU. Love yourself, baby, because no one else ever will like you can!

Life happens, kiddo. It happens to all of us. You taking it personally isn't going to solve anything. so you ran out of time? So you had to babysit? So a class is cancelled? This is nothing about you, it's just something to get through. Accept and move on.
Posted 8/22/2013 5:38 PM (GMT 0)
Uhh, thanks Myself 09 ...
Posted 8/23/2013 4:04 AM (GMT 0)
Thanks for thinking that me being a psychologist is great, cause that's what I was thinking too !! You are one awesome/kind/crazy/cool/hilarious/ I couldn't even describe how fantastic you are!!!

about the challenge, SOLD!! I will do it.. but just later on today okay ? Cause right now, I seriously need to get going... I'm late for school!!

See youh through this forum my Indescribable awesomely fascinating friend.

Joanne
Posted 8/23/2013 1:39 PM (GMT 0)
WOW! Abraham Maslow is such a great man, I even found something in common between us, haha.

I am ready for your quiz now, throw me all your best questions (:

Joanne
Posted 8/23/2013 4:55 PM (GMT 0)
Ya know, I was weird in school too and I acted like it didn't bother me but tear soaked pillow told a different story. Then I just started to grow into my "weirdness"-it was the hippie days so weird was more acceptable but not to my family or old friends, so it was a struggle.

Now I rejoice in my differentness. It is what makes me unforgettable, special, unique. I am who I am and that is a beautiful thing.

God does not make mistakes-He made you just the way you are supposed to be.

Stay strong-you are amongst friends here

Mags
Posted 8/23/2013 5:08 PM (GMT 0)
Question 1: Depends, because some children could have gone through something tragic or so leaving them feeling useless, hopeless, powerless and alone. It's also the same with adults, but I think adults are actually more stressed than toddlers do, because every adult in this world are going to face some or more problems at some point/points.

Question 2: My parents are stressed because my family are all very tight with money now. My brother's wedding ate up a lot of money and my grandmother's sick. My mom has three siblings and she's the eldest among all the girls. There's my uncle (who's the eldest in the family), my mom, my second eldest aunty and my smallest aunty. All of them live in a different country so my family has to travel to Indonesia most of the time (which ate up a lot of money) and all. My second eldest aunt is rich, but very stingy. She doesn't really give money to my grammy so it all goes to my smallest aunt and mom. My smallest aunt almost faced bankruptcy but didn't which is a good thing. To top it off, my family has to buy another house now for my brother so yeah. My father side's family and my fam are not close and my mom has this cleanliness kind of phobia around them because they are so filthy and also quite stingy. that's why.

Question 3: My mom and dad at esteem and my sister at love/belonging. Is that what you mean? cause I'm not really sure on what you're talking about...


So how did I do ? Did I pass or fail the quiz ??? *nervous*

haha... thanks for your time Carl, now we're even (:

Much love,
Joanne
Posted 8/24/2013 3:57 AM (GMT 0)
Thank you bayoub2, I'm so sorry that I didn't reply to your post before because I kinda accidently might scroll down the posts too fast.... Again, sorry :)

But thanks, thanks for your kind words, and I could assure you tonight, I would have a good night sleep, but for now, need to go to school, and again, thanks!!!

Wow, Carl... I guess this wasn't as easy as I thought it would be... but I'm gonna work my best :D
I think it's pretty cool that you could forget things after you learn something new... It's just pretty cool to me :) haha... anyways I might need to answer your questions later because it's 11:55 A.M. now and school's gonna start soon. I just thought that I could check this forum out for a bit. Anyways, your welcome (: You're pretty special to me too you know, oh, and how's your wife doing ??? Hope she's fine...

Just Keep Fighting!!!

Much love,
Joanne
Posted 8/24/2013 3:05 PM (GMT 0)
Ok.. here I go..

Question 1: Generally, I think most toddlers are happier than most adults and most adults happier than most teenagers. Toddlers : love and care. Teenagers : love, care and acceptance. Adults : love, care and more organization in life. about 95 percent of toddlers are satisfied. 50 percent for teenagers and for adults, the scale from 1 to 10 is 6.3 to 6.9.

So far, I only got one. I know that I'm kinda in this *stupid state* now. My mind's just kinda fogged up now... can you please explain it in a child-like way ?? hehe... I don't know what's wrong with me now, but I'm sure that I will figure it out soon, just give more extra time... thanks carl (:

Joanne
Posted 8/24/2013 3:24 PM (GMT 0)
I find I am more happy as an adult than I was when I was younger. Maybe I am one of the exceptions to it. But I am older and wiser and have learned how to be happy.

I see Carl has given you some things to think about Joanne, I think that is awesome!!! He is too cool, isn't he?

Have a wonderful day you two...

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 8/24/2013 4:38 PM (GMT 0)
Hahaha, yes, I find that adults are actually more happier than they were younger too!!

You have no idea Karen, Carl's this cool crazy person who's gonna be by your side when you're down. He is an awesome friend, more than friend actually.. He had earned a special place in my heart that I will always remember and cherish. (:

Have a really splendid day Karen!!

Much love,
Joanne
Posted 8/24/2013 6:44 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Joanne,

I am so happy that you have Carl as a friend and that you are happy with the forum. I thnk it is a really special place and it is people like you and Carl and everybody that makes it that way!

Keep posting!!!

Thank you for the well wishes!!!

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 8/24/2013 8:31 PM (GMT 0)
Hey there again Karen!

That is sooo sweet of you (:

I think you're a pretty good friend too you know...
And thanks for all the kind words!! I really appreciate it. (:

Much love,
Joanne
Posted 8/25/2013 4:24 PM (GMT 0)
Here's the following answer Carl :)

Question 2: Creativity, problem solving, self-esteem, confidence, achievements, resources, the family, health, property, breathing, food, water, sleep, homeostasis and excretion. From tip top to the very bottom. (:

Question 3: Uhhmmm... Carl, what do you mean by most immediate ? I don't really understand.

There you go.. I'd be looking forward to answer question 3 and I hope I answered question 1 and 2 correctly this time... I'm not much of a smarty-pants in my class, haha.. (-:
Posted 8/25/2013 6:15 PM (GMT 0)
I hope you are having a good day today Joanne...

It is hot here, but we went picking blackberries this morning, it was fun.

Take care, have a good one!!!

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 8/25/2013 6:23 PM (GMT 0)
Actually, I am having a good day. It is really hot over here too... That sounds like fun!! I never went picking berries before.. My mom wouldn't let me saying it's too dirty or dangerous.. But oh well... Hope your having a wonderful day and have fun picking berries!!!

Much love,
Joanne
Posted 8/25/2013 6:38 PM (GMT 0)
Hey there Carl!
I was starting to think that you abandoned me back there.. Hahaha...

Well, have a good weekend!! Oh, and Hi to you too (:
And thank you very much, I'm having confidence now and so far, I've learnt that confidence is actually the key out of depression. Yipeeeeeee...

Anyway, have a good day Carl! You and your wife too. (-:

Much love,
Joanne
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