Posted 9/19/2013 3:02 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Stweed,
And welcome to the depression forum. I am glad that you joined us but sorry for the reason.
I think your question would be best asked to his doctor. He might need a bump on the Effexor. If he drank heavily for a long time, going off alcohol will be hard for him. There are many withdrawal symptoms that he could have. Depression being one of them. Though alcohol does make you depressed, he will be better off in the long run. It will take time though.
I hope he feels better soon. Maybe the two of you could do somethings together, such as long walks, watching a movie. He will need to keep his mind busy.
Best wishes for you both...
Hugs, Karen...