thanks a lot for the comment, Keep Moving Forward and BnotAfraid :')
he's already asked for psychiatrist's help and is on his way to recover (his aunt is a psychiatrist and I've told her a lot about
his condition). Before moving to my town, he's gotten a routine treatment, but stopped due to financial problems(the only hindrance).
His aunt lives in another town too, so she told me what to do when his symptoms starts. My father told me to help him, although he's really mad at his mother, but he deeply cares for my bf. I learned from his aunt that his mother has a depression too since her husband passed away 10 years ago, but she did a wrong thing, spent the leftovers money from her husband.
His mother is 50 years old and says thing like "I'm a beautiful, rich and young widow, there's no wonder so many men are looking for marrying me" repeatedly. My grandma has a feeling that the one who's mentally sick is not my bf, but his mother. Since my bf's father passed away, his mother spent his money for fun, fashion, hanging out with her friends, etc. She never looks after her sons (my bf and his younger brother), so she left them to the babysitters. She's kind of a manipulative person, so she manipulates her sons' mind and make them tied to her emotionally.
His aunt told me that the mother sees me as a threat, she's afraid that I'll take my bf's attention and love, but not her. For exact, everyone that is meaningful to my bf, will be kicked off by her, no matter what ways, including his aunt. But, after all those wealth of her husband ran out, she started feeling depressed again.
All his father's family want to do is to save him but unfortunately that they can't move to this town, so they really hope that I can be the only one to save him. His mother won't accept any suggestions from them to take medical treatment for my bf, thinking that it's not an important thing.
My bf actually, is a really kind and caring person, unless something comes to his mind and depresses him. He's really loyal and gentle, different from any other men I've ever known. I don't know about
this, but somewhat, I feel connected to him mentally. I can sense when he's sick and down mentally, I don't know why too.
My heart told him, that I should look after him, help him and do what I think is right to do.
I told him today about
what happened, he cried, the thing he seldom did. This is his first time for having someone who understands him and loves him, no matter what condition it is. My relationship with him is the most comfortable one I ever had, he understands me and supports me, although he's gotten those mental illness, he's committed, he accepted my weaknesses and strengths. He's helped me a lot before during my family problems, now I think, it's my turn to save him.
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