Helping hand

Vanilla

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Joined : Apr 2015

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Posted 4/14/2015 2:15 AM (GMT 0)

Hi Everyone I have a 29 year old son he has been in a relationship for approximately 14 mths during this time his girlfriend fell pregnant now he has a 4mth old son, when his son was 3mths old the girlfriend left with they baby because of a photo I made a comment on which was taken the wrong way now I am barred from seeing my grandson and my son see his son 3 times a week. My son calls me crying as he's missing his baby boy he can't eat sleep his work is suffering my son needs help but I don't know how to help him. This situation is also affecting my health my heart is broken each time I see my son and his sadness it rips me apart

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Posted 4/14/2015 11:49 AM (GMT 0)

hi vanilla. welcome. all over a comment? man your son has paternal rights. i suggest he exercise them. support him yes, but he is a man. he needs to sort this out himself. i am sorry you are affected, what she is doing is mind games; she sounds very immature to me. many healing thoughts.

getting by

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Posted 4/14/2015 1:04 PM (GMT 0)

Hope you can work things out. I agree your son has rights...

Hugs, Karen...

BnotAfraid

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Posted 4/14/2015 4:04 PM (GMT 0)

Vanilla, either something is missing or your sons GF needs help.

From what you posted this is not your fault, nor is it yours to fix.

Your son is a grown man, capable of hiring a lawyer and fighting for his rights as the bio Dad. Only the two of them know the whole deal and can straighten this out.

Time for his to put his big boy pants on and fight.

Peace
Trina

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