Need confidence

I finally wrote what I have been wanting to say to bf. I made two different notes--one about the job search and one about an active plan we can follow to try to save our relationship. There is a small chance we can.

Now, I need the confidence to send these. Please, folks, give me strength.

Before anyone states the obvious, we both can communicate more clearly in writing. Talking usually leads to anger on his side, and then my abandoning the conversation.

Help!

send it. What is the worst that could happen?

I wish you the best of luck!
Peace
Trina

the 5 minutes you, 5 minutes me technique works well. one talks. one rule, only one. that is the person is not allowed to disturb. when your time is up do the same with the other. when you are both doing the listening part, it is handy to take notes. hope this helps. let the person know about this technique; it might be a good tool for you both.