Not sure what to do, please need some advice

hi, time to change the loop on that cassette in ya head. it is running and running, it needs a stop button. why not just be in the moment, stuff what we have or not, focus on the here and now. keep proactive and talk with relevant people for support. you are a precious human being. sending healing thoughts.

Please talk with your doctor. Hormonal changes from having a baby can change how your meds are working. Becoming a parent will change how we view the future and it must be taken seriously. Choosing a baby sitter or child care facility, who will be responsible for our children in the event we can't, affording raising a child and providing for their education, teaching them how to become responsible adults, all of this is rather daunting. Rest assured, every parent goes through these things. You are not alone. Getting all the support you can will be a huge help. Find a 'mommy and me' group so that you can share helpful information with each other. Be honest with your prescibing doctor. Let us know how things are going.

Welcome to the forum.

You have found a soft place to land. We are here to support and listen to you.

Depression after having a child is more common that most people think. Call your OBgyn and tell them how your or feeling 100% honest truth!!

You and your son deserve this!

In the meantime, put 2 fingers on the side of your throat, find your pulse. Feel that? THAT IS YOUR PURPOSE! As long as that beats there is a universal connectivity that ensures you are special have a meaning in this life.

Your son deserves you. You were kind and compassionate enough to carry him nine months and give him life. I am sure deep down you want to be there for him as he grows.

The thing about depression, especially post-pardon is that it can trick a person into thinking things are worse than they are. That they are worthless and useless.
THIS IS JUST NOT TRUE. IT IS THE DEPRESSION.
HOLD ON. CALL YOUR OBGYN.

Peace and strength
Trina

aloha, please know that you're not alone! It is very common for fathers to feel depression after a child is born as well. You have having sleep disruptions, life changes, and stress added to your day.

I don't know how long you've been on the Lexapro, but it does take up to 6 weeks to take full effect, so you may need to just hang in there a bit longer to feel relief.

or, if you've been on it for a while and it's not working any more or never did, then it may be time to change. There are several good medications out there that can help, and it's very individualized as to which medication helps which person. Just because one isn't working doesn't mean another wont. Sometimes it is just trial and error, which is frustrating, but a path we may need to walk. Talk to your doctor ASAP and let him/her know what you're feeling.

I might also suggest a therapist who can offer you counseling. The combination of therapy + medication can be very successful.

Stay strong!