It's so twisted these days, if you find "joy" in helping family/others you're labled a "co-depedant" and considered a "sap". True, you have to watch yourself that you're not taken advantage of...sad fact of life. YES...it is the way lots of (not all) moms are "programed" and I think that's why it feels SO GOOD when it (selfless-ness) works
and is SO PAINFUL when it doesn't. :-( Sigh. I tried to explain that to a more "modern" friend of mine and she just didn't get it. It was like I was tlking to a brick wall.
Oh well, I'll stop before I cross any lines. I don't know what that has to do with Diabetes, LOL...Maybe it's the awkwardness of the dwelling so much on yourself that Diabetes CAN demand us to do...