Jim,
In the U.S. it does vary from one state to another. In KY where I live, you have to be 90 days seizure free which I have been working on since last August. Tomorrow I will be two months seizure free!!!!!! My neurologist is at Vanderbilt which is just across the state line in TN, where you have to be six months seizure free. He's a great neuro, by the way, but he has warned me not to plan on any shopping trips to Nashville by myself until I am six months seizure free. I can't imagine having to wait a year.
I agree that God never puts more on us than we can handle at one time. I am 56 and my asthma came on with a vengeance in 2002. I continued working by taking my nebulizer to work and doing breathing treatments during the day and of course, I missed a lot of work because my asthma is so severe. People aren't very nice when you have to miss a lot of work and that stress didn't help my asthma.
When I started having myoclonic seizures at my desk I had no idea what was happening to me, I was just trying to keep my job. I really thought it was a side effect of all the Prednisone I've had to take for asthma. I knew I was having a lot of problems with concentration, but I thought it was from all the stress I was under at work. I was struggling to make year end budget decisions for the department with more and more stress being put on me because they wanted me to quit, because I was sick.
Then I was on the phone with my daughter, I was at work and I could barely talk. I didn't want to go to the ER, but she told me she was afraid I was having a stroke. They also thought I was having a stroke at the ER but put me through all the tests and ruled that out and sent me to a neurologist here where I live who got me to the right doctor at Vanderbilt. I now know I have a couple of different types of seizures.
I was lucky that I was 55 at the time even though I had only worked at the university for eight years, so I was eligible for early retirement, which isn't much but is gives me access to group health insurance. A short-term disability policy turned into a long-term policy which could or could not pay until I turn 65. At the suggestion of the HR Dept., I have applied for disability retirement with the KY Educational Retirement System which has been turned down twice and we are now at the point where we will go into a court like setting with my attorney. So, I've been o.k. financially.
It seems my asthma doesn't flare at the same time I'm having seizures. I have three beautiful grandchildren and I also know there are people in much worse shape than I am. I certainly do not miss work.
I hope you find this site as valuable as I have. I would have been completely lost without it, Darren can vouch for that. I only wish I had found it sooner.
Carla