Hi there,
Neurologists can sometimes appear to be very harsh in the questions they ask but it is important to remember that on your first visit, that the neuro is trying to get as much information as possible. I would be worried if she HAD NOT questioned drugs. It sounds like she was a little bit of a problem in not allowing you to speak about your daughters suspected meningitis but generally she sounds like she was alright. Presumably, she is not making any judgements until the VEEG results come back. They shouldnt take that long, depending on how long it takes the neuro to get to see it. Hopefully, after that she will start giving you some concrete answers.
Darren