Hi Imlynelle, welcome to the forum. We usually get the person w/ Fibro here, it is nice to also get the spouse. Especially one so supportive of their loved one.
I've lived in New Jersey all my life, I love living near the water. Yet, I don't think this is paradise. We have cold, damp winters, and hot, humid summers. Spring and autumn seem to be extensions of winter. lol. We had a few nice days at the end of spring, then, bam! It was summer. I would love warm temps, low humidity, soft, gentle breezes.
If you find paradise, pls, pls let us know. We will be there in droves. I feel like Goldilocks, not too hot, not too cold, juuuust right.
God bless. Alice.