Hi Spatchie. I know everyone is different, but I haven't found much relief with meds either. I can take Flexeril or Zanaflex periodically if I'm having a particularly bad day, but I can't tolerate the side effects of taking them regularly.
I can't tolerate Lyrica or antidepressants at all, so those aren't an option for me either. I have an inner ear disorder and sometimes take Valium for that, which also helps with muscle spasms and anxiety. But again, it's not something that I want to take all of the time.
I mostly manage with non-pharmaceutical "treatments" like heat, massage, stretching, gentle walking, and trying not to overdo it physically. Trying to manage stress is also a biggie for me. If I get too stressed, I feel it in every part of my body. I find that these methods really do work for me. I'm never completely without pain, but they do help.
There may be some people out there who have all of their pain controlled by meds. but I don't think it's common. I think most people taking meds. would say that it helps them manage the pain.
Hope you feel better soon. This is a hard illness to cope with, but you do learn how to manage the pain (most of the time) and live your life (sometimes with some adjustments).
Hugs - Austen