I've just come through a three month period of shoulder/neck/upper arm pain, left side. Then I found myself in emerg with horrible chest pain. It turned out to be costochondiatis. It was as if the first three months were a build up to the finale, incredible chest pain caused by the muscles around the heart. The emerg doc gave me a skeletal muscle relaxer, careful, it'll floor you, which I usually only took at bedtime, otherwise I couldn't drive. On the rare days I needed it during the day, I would either get my son to drive, or stay home. I went to a massage therapist, once every two weeks for three sessions. I am sure that was what broke the cycle. There were knots at the top of my shoulders the size of walnuts, and twice as hard. She would work these for a bit, pressing down into the knots to try to soften them up a bit, and then go on to another area. Then come back and work them some more. Eventually my shoulders dropped down a bit, from up by my ears. Also, although life has been incredibly stressful, moving house and all, all sorts of hoops to jump through then all sorts of screwups, plus my son here with me. Definitely that situation will have to be temporary cause he causes me stress by being cranky all the time, unmotivated, and draing my resources. He is supposed to start school in a few weeks or so, keeping my fingers crossed, he gets funding. He is definitely a mixed blessing. He can be very helpful at times and very hurtful, other times. I really just want to deal with this dreaded disease, to the best of my ability, in peace. Today, I used up the last of my pain meds. I see the doc on Monday. Because of the Costo episode, I went through a few more than usual. So, out of pain meds, again. This means mother's day is going to be spent lathering ungents on myself, curled up with the heating pad. So it goes. Hope your shoulder irons itself out.