Hello all.
I haven't posted for a while because of the problems with ex and my family but: Yipee, hallaluyah, zippadeedoodah(spelling) Yahoo, we are now in our new home, safe and snug.
It has been a very long and very very stressful road, my ex is still texting my mobile but I don't reply, neither he nor my family know where we are or have any contact details.
We love the house, it's large, light and airy, I managed to get the carpets laid the day before we moved in and my friend managed to paint all that needed to be done for them to be laid, he is now doing the rest of the house.
I am so very lucky to be safe in our own home and I count my blessings every day, I'm absolutely exhausted and hurt like mad but it's worth it. I am still a little afraid because my ex has been to all my old nieghbors trying to find me but I didn't tell them where we were going, so all is well.
My youngest had an operation to remove a ganglion from his hand yesterday, he was supposed to be in theatre for 30-40 minutes, he was there for 2hrs, boy was I glad when he came back up. 
I would like to say a huge thank you to all of you for your support, i'm so very grateful, I hope you are all well