Sassy, I do hope all goes well for you. Hopefully, w/ very little pain! I had my tubes tied the day after my second son was born. They went thru my belly button, can't even see it now. I've had Fibro all my life, so all my surgeries have been w/ this stupid thing.
I'm glad your sister will be able to help out w/ Alex, that itself is such a blessing. Use that time to get your strength and energy back.
I will keep you in my prayers. Hopefully, in a few wks you will feel absolutely fantastic.
God bless. Alice.