I get the tingling in my hands even after carpal tunnel surgery! My hands ache like tooth aches all the time. I have numbness at times and pain that shoots down my arms from my elbow. I am fatigued alot of the time and work and have 2 small (6 and 2) to look after while my husband works nite turn. I can sympathize with you on being frustrated and un nerved by the dr(s) not finding something. It took me over 3 years to get it figured out! I hope you can too!! It certainly sounds like my fibro diagnosis..........good luck with everything!