This is what the American College of Rheumatology has to say. Because you are a man, that can make a difference. Also, I don't show that many tender points but I'm on ibuprofen and Tylenol and that helps ease the pain and that needs to be considered, too.
I took this from the link called A Thorough Explanation of Fibromyalgia that I posted on Fibro 101. There is a lot of info on Fibro 101 so you might want to read it. It will help you understand this illness better!
A doctor familiar with fibromyalgia, however, can make a diagnosis based on criteria established by the American College of Rheumatology (ACR): a history of widespread pain lasting more than 3 months, and the presence of diffuse tenderness. Pain is considered to be widespread when it affects all four quadrants of the body, meaning it must be felt on both the left and right sides of the body as well as above and below the waist. ACR also has designated 18 sites on the body as possible tender points. To meet the strict criteria for a fibromyalgia diagnosis, a person must have 11 or more tender points, but often patients with fibromyalgia will not always be this tender, especially men (see illustration below). People who have fibromyalgia certainly may feel pain at other sites, too, but those 18 standard possible sites on the body are the criteria used for classification.
Sherrine